Sending Face Pictures...

8 Oct 2009

Hi all, I'm relatively new to all this and a recent experience has left me wondering a little. A lot of us here want our participation to be kept very discreet, I think that's a given...so a lot of communication requires trust. I replied to a swinger party ad that requested a face pic with the proviso that the party holders would provide one in return. They also asked me where I'm from of the city where I live. Well, I sent the pic, was politely told that I wasn't what they are looking for and that's it. Now this couple know what I look like, roughly where I'm from and that cushion which would have been their photo not forthcoming. It doesn't seem quite fair or am I wrong?

8 Oct 2009

Nope,Your right.... To be honest....In this day and age,with the amount of fakes,and scammers around all different sites..I'm amazed anyone will send pics. Especially Face pics. If it came down to it,and "other" people wanted to see Our pic,,They would want to show themselves on Cam first. Way too many "pic hunters" out there.. We were "caught" before,and,,it won't be happening again! Always remember,,"Safety First". And,If it sounds too good to be true,,,It usually is!!

12 Oct 2009

Thanks for your feedback But how do you reply or apply to a swinger party ad on this site if the couple won't even communicate unless you send a face picture? (I'm asking this rhetorically in all reality!) When a 'established' couple say that they will exchange face pictures, part of this I assume is a mutual safeguard. When the couple don't act accordingly it puts the applicant in a unsafe position. It just strikes me as being unfair and in truth a trifle hypocritical when you read some of the moralising on this site in relation to behaviour and etiquette etc.

12 Oct 2009

Yup,,We agree with you,,It's very unfair. Sadly though,,sometimes you just have to "bite the bullet",,and send the pic. Some of the people that run meets on here will be established though,,and,,they could be trusted a lot more that others that have not. As We already said though,,Personally,,We would Not send Our pics to anyone We weren't sure of in here..Or,,on any other site for that matter. Another "example" of this,,is some of the profiles on here,,that tell you that they won't reply,if you don't have pics on your profile,,yet they don't have any pics themselves. Avoid these at all costs!!

12 Oct 2009

Quote by user=edgivs
Thanks for your feedback
But how do you reply or apply to a swinger party ad on this site if the couple won't even communicate unless you send a face picture? (I'm asking this rhetorically in all reality!)
When a 'established' couple say that they will exchange face pictures, part of this I assume is a mutual safeguard. When the couple don't act accordingly it puts the applicant in a unsafe position.
It just strikes me as being unfair and in truth a trifle hypocritical when you read some of the moralising on this site in relation to behaviour and etiquette etc.

Hi ed,
Its a tad unfair alright, but the other party's view it that 'well we aint meeting him so why should he see our pictures'? and sadly thats just the way it is, and its completely understandable. You will appreciate that if they are a genuine cpl they will have moved onto something else inside a day or two and wont desire to make any trouble for you.