same old same old

2 Aug 2010

Passing a very LARGE Cool STIFF drink to Lovebird - you need something to whet your whistle after that. :giggle:
Needed saying - and should be posted to every new member when they join the site - in triplicate - to be signed, in blood before being allowed to enter the chatrooms!
Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease learn, GUYS - to use the chatroom the same way you would if you walked into your local bar - as a place to socialise and see who's who - NOT as a knocking shop where you choose your victim at random and use/abuse at will for the price of a few dirty remarks!!!
And Yes, I know - some of the girls can be just as naughty - but the HUGE majority of problems are the GUYS - Sorry - plain fact!!!

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2 Aug 2010

Quote by user=lovebird
ok so i know its been said before...but its driving me crazy.
do guys really really think that when they whisper 'hi' without permission is the start of something wonderful?? come on guys if your going to risk whispering without permission lets at least try.
to make matters worse, i was in a room early this morning,i'd just logged on,at least 23/25 ppl in the room i said 'hi everyone' no response, except i got five answers in whispers!!! what is the fecking point in that??all the 'exciting'responses were 'hi' hello etc etc...
i must be really missing something here,what do guys get out of this?
but the one that finally broke the camels back for me, was the guy who persisted in whispering even though id asked very nicely for him 2 stop he continued,to the extent of posting his email addy,gave me his mob, and to cap it all off,pleaded with me to acknowledge his whispers!!!!
now guys i may not know it all when it comes to getting ppl to answer your whispers but 'pleading' its sooooooo unattractive.
i do realise that its difficult for some guys to make an impact when there are so many ppl in a room and the ratio of guys to girls is way higher, but pleading for a response its not the way to go, at least for me.
i suppose neither is telling me you have a big dick and you can please me till i scream, well can i just say i was screaming and it had nothing to do with your dick.
as for the guy who repeatedly asked me to 'check out his cam, i wont be disappointed' well unless paul weller was on cam singing i can promise you il be i didnt check out his cam i was asked 'am i too good to look??'eh...no i just choose not on cam with their dicks out are fine, im not at all knocking that, but if we want to look we will look.
i honestly dont think this is the way to go....its annoying, to be constantly whispered. that isnt to say i dont ever whisper, i do, but guys if we say not at the moment please respect that and no amount of promising us we will be satisfied like never before will change it.
rant over now.....
lovebird
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Hi Lovebird
Yes its very annoying when guys whisper without permission i often see the mods putting the warning up in the chatrooms to ask people for permission first. But still the mods are ignored on this request i think they should be tougher bans on people who keep on breaking the chatroom rules.
It's annoying for us genuine single males who are willing to meet people form the site when the behaviour from other single males ruin our behaviour from some of these guys is disgusting and not called for the chatroom rules are even posted before you enter the chatroom and still they are broken.
I firmly believe in treating people with up most respect the same way that i would lke to be treated myself if guys cant behave in a proper manner in the chatroom well i think they should stay away sorry for the rant.

2 Aug 2010

hi lovebird your right males or cpls should ask to whisper i do get the same and it usualy is hi suzie are you going on cam when i say no in chat he leaves xxxxx

2 Aug 2010

Yea, it is annoying all right rolleyes

I normally go on cam coz of all that.
When they see it ain't the female the whispers magically stop biggrin

2 Aug 2010

when im on cam i ignore the whispers and answer the ones that talk in mains it seems to work they soon get the message .dont mind a whisper every now and then but ones that come and say how big their cocks are and how long they can go for are not the way to get a woman interested .a bit of chat in mains would got peeps a whole lot more attention so thats my rant for all it worth....... guys just be nice in main chat :bounce::bounce:

2 Aug 2010

AT THE END OF THE DAY WERE JUST ANIMALS, JUST SOME OF US ARE BETTER TRAINED THAN OTHERS.......sad but true!The guys that persistently whisper come here for a quick thrill...come on lads prove me wrong? ...call my bluff? I know from being here long enough as a MEMBER that the majority of the serial whispers are looking for a quick thrill and no more interested in swinging than the man on the moon. Just today I see a barrage of cock cammers who seemingly sit on cam for hours on end, they appear to type from time to time yet nothing appears in main chat so logical explanation is they are sending a unsolicited whisper in the hope they get a reaction. I've said it a million times, but feck it once more wont make a difference. Ignoring these guys completely (unless of course they get all het up cause your not falling for they're great one liners such as 'what ya think of my cam' etc) eventually reduces there reason to keep up the whispers.

2 Aug 2010

:clap::clap:well said titan xxxxx

2 Aug 2010

I would like 2 suggest 2 write up; - "No Web Addresses, no Email Addresses! And also something simple like Ask Permission Before Whispering! up in the green bar where it gives Room Name and at least the green bar will remain at top of chat when screen rolls out more chat. Have no idea if this would be possible, but at least if it stays at top of Chat it is written there plainly for Newbies and all to see.
Sometimes I find ignoring whispers does force a person to ask in main when they realise your not gonna whisper them back so they do learn lol, other times ignoring whispers can only push the un-invited whisperer farther and they whisper far more rude im-polite things the braver they get.
As time goes on it gets easier to pick out the "Serial Whisperers," as that is all they seem to do on the Site. I know sometimes it is totally easy to whisper wrong person, or to whisper when you're supposed to be "Chatting to all." But I suppose, do what ya can to deal with them - express your dis-like of whispering, and/or copy n' paste whisper, and Offender will be dealt with.

2 Aug 2010

I absolutly agree Titan. Well said worship

However I would like to point out that as this was my first week as a moderator - I see people in chat saying "stop whispering please" in main chat - and when asked who the serial whisperers were, no names are mentioned. Therefore if you have a problem with "serial" whispers, and whisperers - Let Us Know! We're here to help! :thumbup: (ps .. LoveBird - even i nearly needed a drink after that rant drinkies

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7 Aug 2010

Lovebird if I didnt plead cajole and in the end bribe mrs m i would never get any sex. and I wonder why I never have any money!!!!!!!!