well said vanity :clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:
Well Said Vanity.
Everyone's entitled to cam without hassle from some immature twit. We all are here for fun and when cam sessions start getting nasty it no fun for anyone. those guilty I will ask you to take a long hard look at yourselves in the mirror, when you have driven the ladies of the cams you'll have no one to blame when you dont have any eye candy.
So remember it takes a lot more effort to be an asshole, and feck all to be nice and just enjoy, if the cammer in question is not to your liking switch it off.
Thats why I don't do cam. I've seen some of the girls get dogs abuse from silly twits. These are normally the guys with a one line profile and no pics and never dare do cam themselves. Unfortunately the nature of chat rooms is its very easy for cowards to say stuff they would never dare to say to your face.
Having said that theres lots of great single guys here who are very respectful and a good laugh.:thrilled:
thanks guys for the nice things said me personally :smile2: dont give a shit im on here a while now so used to the arseholes :wank:but new folk that want to play not fair one example the other night a pretty lass first time on and they drove her off all i say is their the losers as she said she wasnt on to be abused and rightly so :clap: give respect get respect
Van,
Fair play to your post, long ovedue, and needs addressing.
A guy on cam,,,, its breezed over, most just have their cock on cam, I dont( well on certain occassions) I like Andy show my face.
I am bi,,, even I get sick of the cock thing,,,, its always a pleasure to see a female on cam, that takes courage and for that I admire you and the rest of you Girls,,,, fair play,,,,
Padds
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Agree wholeheartedly, Van.
Needs to be more respect for cammers and in general on here.
lol unfortunately the ones that should read this thread aren't likely to.
I keep saying it....
An block /ignore button .....
Or a cattle prod will also work ..
I have the up-most respect for anyone on cam and i think they should be left to do their thing, whatever their thing may be, without being hassled or getting a million unwanted whispers.
Not big into guys wanking on cam but some are so if you feel the need, you go for it lads as im sure there always someone to watch you.
Sean xx
While I totally agree with vanity and the points she listed here , Id like to add that its not just woman cammers who should be respected , its all members , and yes the majority of the time its a few single guys who are the ones at fault , but I will say I have seen females do the same , some of us females on site can have acid tongues , so I think its across both sexes that the respect issue needs to be addressed .
I agree with all the comments here though its always the guys who do not go on cam and generally have nothing to say that abuse the women on cam. Think of it from their point of view though. You are on cam so by definition loose and available for sex there and then. They have consented to allow themselves to have sex with you, have taken the trouble to whisper you and tell you that, and gasp, you ignore them, or worse still say no. Whats the boy to do? Go back to his mammy? (I suspect some of them do but lets not go there lol) If you read their abusiveness with the foregoing in mind, it all makes sense. All the sadder for it, but makes sense!
I agree with vanity on this one i'm new to the but notice alot a lot of guys just rush in, i think it's terrible that the girls do put with abuse in the chat room whether on cam or also makes it alot harder for us geniune single guys ands ruins the fun of the chat room.
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I have to say I've been lucky up until now and have thus far avoided any nasty comments, but I totally agree with whats been said. It's a cert that 99% of the people handing out abuse have never, and would never cam on here, and whether or not they do, that gives no one the right to abuse anyone else. If you turn on a cam and don't like what you see, turn it off and move on to another. As the saying goes 'It's nice to be nice' and if you can't be nice keep it shut!!!
well said all :clap a good few peeps need to learn manners you should treat peeps as you would like to be treated yourself bonnyxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Judging by a post from Padds
"Going on Cam!! Why in this day and age, do users still send offensive and abusive posts in the Chat? As a Male, that cam's I was abused tonight in the BI room! Now I know how the Females feel! No longer camming!! Padd's "
it would seem the Cam abusers are back ... abusing male & female cammers ...
it really is un-acceptable & not in the spirit of the site.
Support the cammers & if you witness abuse of a cammer go and notify a mod.
have to say van your spot on some guys in chat rooms think when a women is on cam tat they can say or ask them to do wat they want fair fucks for any girl tat puts them selfs on cam where would we be with out all the very sexy godlooking girls tat this site has so please guys go easy or we wont have them on cam for us to look at :thumbup::love:
Admin this may be an "Anything Goes" forum, & people are entitled to express their views & opinions, but the views expressed by Tom are a sad reflection on the male psychye. & if they are truly Tom's views then they are worthy of a ban.
Alan we don't think tom thinks that way,it came across to us as him taking the piss out of the little twats that are doing the abusing.
We have had some abuse too when we have went on cam but they soon stop when you tell them where to go, And anyhow i`m a beautiful supermodel so why wouldn't the men and women here drool over me and my teddy is a captain Birdseye impersonator according to cabbs.... we know we are hot so look at us and adore us lol. Please note when ever we have had abuse in chat so many other users have come to our aid for which we are grateful.
had to go way back in to this thread to find the full text of what Tom said as Admin had only quotes a small section .... so apologies to Tom if I implied you held certain views.
Raven I would be afraid to abuse you incase you might :kick: me ... and anyways I can think of other things i would prefer to do with you ...:taz:
Van sry this has happened u. I agree wit ev'thin u say. The majority I hav talked to in chat seem like decent people but it just takes one asshole to ruin it. Jeez I know it a sex site but bein made to feel like a slut is horrible, just my experience. Some forget we are all human with feckin feelins n a bit of respect goes a long way. This rant could go on but I save ya from the boredom lol. Xx
.give respect get respect nobody is forced to look at anyone cam :huh:. if ya dont like turn off do not insult the cammer
, if you do this it just put the women off , your loss i might add:wank:, all to often single guys say they get raw deal here but hey what can ya expect if ye guys keep insultin the women
, that can be just teasin the eye :Pyou guys know who do this as i say give respect get respect and enjoy we do not forget insults i might add :cheers: 
I cant beleive you of all the camers on here and may I say one of the nicest gets any dissrespect from anyone
I tend to zone in on the particular person I am chatting to and not see what else is going on in a given room so I have never seen you getting abuse
to The the abusers "Grow up lads" nothing wrong with been a :wank:as long as your not 
with it
Keep the chin up vanity and to me you will always be 
hwoar:
my house decor has also been the subject of distasteful conversation - for christ sake im doing something wrong if its my wallpaper ur looking at :giggle:
so guys and gals - yes were on cam - but were not there for ur amusement if ur bored. As they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder - and we are all beautiful in our won way -0 so if u have nothing nice to say ------------ KEEP UR TRAP SHUT
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