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Remembering our past loved ones at Christmas

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Thinking of all our loved ones who have past, Christmas can sometimes make us miss them even more, may they all have a fantastic party up in heaven, heres hoping it's a swinging one :angel: This is a poem that I wrote for my aunty Ger who passed away at a young age of 39 God said to noah there's gona be a floody woody God said to naoh there's gona be a floody woody Get those out of the muddy woody chidren of the Lord Strolling beside the canal This is the song we sang Leading us was your Mum Oh boy did we have fun Smiles on our faces Laughter echoed the air Happy to be alive with out aunt how didn't have a care Listening to her tell a story, tears would roll from our eyes She had qualities that no one could touch And that is why she was loved so much Her curly brown hair and gap in her teeth are the memories everyone will keep Her passion was fashion, colours everywhere Remember the suade patched jacket she ran everywhere Poppies vivid in the golden sun Memories flow back of Ger and Mum Oh how our summer times were filled with fun Her children were her life Even if they caused her strive She kept them near Chasing away their childhood fear As the stars twinkled at night Ger would be out of sight Singing and dancing in her favourite bar Shining like a star As the leaf fell from the tree And hit the wet ground It was then we realised what we had found A soul filled with cheer A happy face in sight It was just too early to say goodnight "When we live, enjoy the love for some its too late"
MsHotkatt , Beautifully written hun ………… With sorrow in my heart I have nothing to say as I hope this poem says it all ………… Gifts for you ill lay ………. I did not get to hold you gently , to show how much I cared, I would have done for hours and have done nothing but stared. Not your tiny little hands no bigger than my thumb, did I get to see, Nor your tiny little face to look upon as you should have with me . Nor will i see you grow to be a success at everything you should , You was not a quitter , the lord knows you were good , it was I who failed …… You my son this my heart is broken , The tears I cry are for lost , the sorrow off what should have been , The tears I do not cry ill carry to heaven to with me … And there at Our Lords gate , I shed them for you to see , There my son ill hold you , never to set you free , There my son I pray you’ll see I never meant to fail thee , You are everything to me …………….. You will always be remembered and as gifts for you ill lay … This and very Christmas , until the angels come to bring me to thee ………………………… ………………………………............................................................. ………………………………..............................................................
Mrshotkatt and Tomirs, Wow beautiful :clap: :clap: kiss :kiss: :rose:
Tomirs hon...thank you so much for sharing, your son will always be with you, maybe not in you arms but in your heart and angels are minding him for you now. I am so sorry for your lose, I dont know wot else to say hon but right now im sheding a tear for both you xxxxx
lovely idea kitty...important to rem loved ones...really get a sense from your poem how much you loved your aunt too...fair play to you for having the moxy to post it up...
kitty, sorry for your lost. no doubt ur aunt will b havin a party up in heaven. ur poem is very movin and its shows in ur words that u love her dearly. she sounds like a great lady....may she rip
very touching ladies and i feel your pain as this will be a first for my family at xmas with the loss of my father and those poems are very heart felt and comforting well done ladies xxxx
Tatts I will light a candle for your Daddy, may he always me in your heart :love:
Sending hugs and well wishes to all those caring people, loss is a very difficult experience. But happy memories are ageless and timeless. Lovely poems guys, special hugs for you.
Thank you cat hun kiss . As you say , Christmas is a time not only for giving , happiness and sharing put so for a little sorrow too , for the love one’s we have lost to make us more appreciative of all who are with us and all the love we do have each and everyday ….. Share the love and peace from our sorrows will follow …………………. Tomirs :kiss:
*You were vibrant, full of life, always laughing. You looked out for me, Hauled my hay in, You loved wild birds, Always rescuing injured and abandoned ones You never showed your softer side Only to me..... Your little sister, You left so quickly, I never got to say goodbye, And I think of you always And carry you in that special place in my heart Reserved for you You loved Christmas Merry Christmas Big Brother* xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Ms HottKatt thanks for starting this thread and allowing us to share (((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))) tomirs........
Wup :rose: Dragon hon thank YOU for sharing....your big brother will always be your big brother, always watching over you, he is in a higher place now and with enternal love xxxx
Forgot to say a big thanks to Tommy and Randy for both your kind words :inlove:
This is a wonderful thread, this is a poem a friend sent me on the passing of my baby, it made me angry at my friend at first but when i read it properly it made me cry with the thought that was in it. my friend didnt write it.
The Existence Of Love
I had thought that your death
was a waste and destruction,
A pain of grief hardly to be endured.
I am only beginning to learn
That your life was a gift, a growing
And a loving left with me.
The desperation of death
Destroyed the existence of love,
But the fact of death
Cannot destroy what has been given.
I am learning to look at your life again
Instead of your death and your departing.
~by: Marjorie Pizer~
God’s Lent Child I’ll lend you for a little while A child of mine” God said – For you to love the while he lives and mourn for when he’s dead. It may be six or seven years or forty two or three but will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me? He’ll bring his charms to gladden you and, should his stay be brief, you’ll have his nicest memories as solace for his grief. I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return but, there are lessons taught below, I want this child to learn. I’ve looked the whole world over, in my search for teachers true, and from the things that crowd life’s lane I have chosen you. Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labour vain, nor hate me when I come to take this lent child back again? I fancied that I heard them say, “Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done” for all the joys thy child will bring the risk of grief will run. We’ll shelter him with tenderness, we’ll love him while we may, and for the happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay. But, should thy Angels call for him much sooner than we planned, we’ll brave the grief that comes and try to understand.
Angel Flying To Close To The Ground If you had not have fallen Then I would not have found you Angel flying too close to the ground And I patched up your broken wing And hung around a while Tried to keep your spirits up And your fever down I knew someday that you would fly away For love's the greatest healer to be found So leave me if you need to I will still remember Angel flying too close to the ground Fly on, fly on past the speed of sound I'd rather see you up Than see you down Leave me if you need to I will still remember Angel flying too close to the ground
There is a land of the living and a land of the dead . The bridge is LOVE,
A Fathers touch, A Daddy's kiss,
A grieving Daughter, You're greatly missed.
An empty house, An empty chair,
A fathers love, No longer there.
A broken heart, Tear filled eye,
Another soul to fill the sky.
Many memories in my mind,
Some I laugh, Some I cry.
The times we shared, The laughs we had,
Things I miss when I think of you Dad.
Realizing that's all I have to hold on too,
Only memories, Of what once was you.
Missing your laugh, I will never again hear.
That is the reality that fills me with so much fear.
No more smile on your face,
No more warmth of your embrace.
The last hug, The last kiss,
The last "goodbye" leaves me with one last wish...
To have you Dad, here today,
Never to leave your Daughter this way.
A Father's touch, A Daddy's kiss,
A grieving Daughter, YOU'RE GREATLY MISSED!
Another Angel is gone to heaven today... R.I.P. my lovely grandmother. Will miss u!:love:
*even though you can no longer hear the wild bird singing if you listen with your heart you will always hear its song* so sorry for your loss loveheart xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx dragonxxxxxxx
My Grandmother
In my Rose Garden of memories
I see you standing there
An angel in disguise
Who taught me how to care
I long to hear your voice
for real not in my dreams
I am missing you so much these days
how empty my world seems
People say time heals all wounds
that someday the pain will subside
But Grandma I can tell you
I think they musr have lied
The emptiness I am feeling now
is strong and I am weak
These days go by without you
so deary and so bleak
In my Rose Garden of memories
I know you'll always be
for though your're gone
from this mortal world
In my heart you'll always be
Thinking of you at this time loveheart
Little Angel Unknown
A little angel unknown I, am, my place is as an angel in a secret land.
I didn't have a name as such, you didn't get the chance,
I wasn't meant to live on earth just touch you by the hand.
I've been sent to touch your lives and I know you’ll think that cruel,
but its only special people that are chosen exceptions to the rules.
I knew you would love me from the very start,
from that first sighting & beating of my tiny heart,
so I know that it will hurt you that you have to say goodbye,
but I am your guardian angel now and I'll dry the tears from your eyes.
I'll be there by your side wherever you now go,
I will hear you speak of me often & what I might have been if I'd grown,
I'll be the special angel in the picture that you have,
I'll remind you of my brother & my dad,
I'll have your little features all of you as one
& I'll love you always as my special mum.
You might not have got to see me as a living breathing thing,
but I'll be the ribbon around your heart and my love will be deep within,
this pleasure I promise will be mine,
to be your guardian angel from now until the end of time.
I'll gift you with my presence every night within your dreams,
walk always as your special unknown angel
gifted to you within just for a short while,
so think of me often and smile,
For I, am your very own special unknown gifted child.