On another site I have come across a number of profiles stating that they only want to meet committed couples, not "just friends" pretend couples (fuck buddies/friends with benefits etc)
what is the difference between playing with a couple or 2 people that are just friends??
is there a perception that fuck buddy couples dont have the same level of understanding between themselves as a couple who are in a serious relationship, the knowing when one is unhappy or happy to continue, knowing what makes the other tick.
or is it couples in a relationship (be that living together married or just serious dating) had more trust then a couple of singles who have decided to play as a couple.
Would you meet a "just friends" couple
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A committed relationship is an interpersonal relationship based upon a mutually agreed upon commitment to one another involving exclusivity, honesty, or some other agreed upon behavior. Forms of committed relationships are: close friendship, courtship, long-term relationships (LTR), engagement, marriage, and civil unions. The term is most commonly used with informal relationships, such as "going steady," but may encompass any relationship where an expressed commitment is involved.
The definition of a fuck buddy is someone with whom you are sexually involved, but with no (relationship, ie. emotional or romantic) strings attached; where occasionally through having a productive one-night-stand with them, it can then lead onto having a series of Regular One Night Stands (RONS™). These can then develop into being an on-call sexual relationship – fuck-buddies.
I'm gonna take a stab at this Alan-Ball...
I reckon the reasoning behind the profiles you mention is that some folks don't want to interfere with what could be an unstable relationship. It takes a while for partners, married or not, to develop trust with each other. This is vital, I believe, to swing. The couple must know that it is all just a bit of fun and when they wake up the next day there won't be any strange feelings happening. The last thing a person wants, be they single or a couple, is to go for a night or two of fun and end up as the one who destroyed a relationship. This, I believe is just a personal preference that these folks have on their profiles. I don't believe it is disrespectful to people who are in more casual circumstances. Just a personal preference that some may have based on their own experiences.
Warming the Bed
Have to agree with Eponymous. A lot of couples want to play with other couples as its only swinging and do not want any unwanted emotional entanglements. Its just easier that way, everyone knows who they are going home with after the parties not that they have anything against people who have casual relationships its just a lot less messy.
as a single female on this site i find i get a lot of attention from couples looking to bring in a Fem... so they're not all just looking to play with other couples. its more scary to go in and play in a married couple situation than a "swing" couple.. for me... anyway.. maybe i'll just stick to the single males...
