Picture savvy

What would you do?

17 May 2011

Just thought I should offer my recent personal experience as a cautionary note for those who want to be picture savvy! A sick individual (an ex) took naked videos and pictures of me (with my permission at the time, stored and kept without my permission) and uploaded them to a porn site a year after we split, with various disgusting captions along with his own username and blasting them off as "his current promiscious girlfriend"... along with this he frequently made contact with me as a "friend" and I never suspected that he would be capable of this. This same porn site received 10,000 hits for one particular video, that included a visual image of me carrying out fellatio. My current partner found this webpage and this almost cost me my relationship. The same person uploaded pictures of his sister (clothed) making a profile in her name, then added various BBW blonde pictures in various sex acts and positions becoming friends with his own profile (which was a couple profile).... Thank god they are all deleted (so he says)! SO without seeming negative and pessimistic about the danger of sharing naked pictures, I'd like to ask you all to just be a little bit careful about who you share these pictures with... smile

xxx

17 May 2011

Misscool, sorry to hear about your troubles, This is the kind of nightmare scenario no-one participating in swinging should have to through. Sadly there are sick individuals in this world, and the Internet can spread such images etc faster than you can blink an eye. Hope your getting through this ok, and kudos on the bravery in telling people about the ordeal. T

17 May 2011

Really sorry to hear you went through this MissCool. It takes a sick individual to upload pics of his sister too. Now that is utterly freaky. What a weirdo. What kind of person uploads pics of his sister whether they are clothed ones or not to a porn site? And then he uses both profiles to verify each other. Thats just sick. Someone call the men in white coats for this guy, and have him sectioned and sent straight to Grangegorman or the other place out in Portrane. This guy seriously needs to have his mental state examined. His sister you say? Urrrrrgh I have shudders, someone pass me a brown paper bag loon

17 May 2011

good for you for telling your bad encounter so sorry to hear hun i think it would be best giving him a warning ,remember your good job and yourself, rise aBOVE IT ah he realises he had a good thing and cant handle youve moved on,its true ya never know the real person one thing can change everything,mind yourself chick :kiss

18 May 2011

ah that is horrible, sorry to hear this happened to u sad

18 May 2011

Sorry to hear about your trouble with that guy MissCool. We also have had a similar problem in the past where a guy used photos on his profile without permission. He went further and stated that she was his play partner. We do not know if he still has the photos stored somewhere or not but, he has taken them down and changed his profile name since. L & S

19 May 2011

Thanks for all your feedback peeps smile

and sorry to hear about that hotnfiery sad

I reckon I'll be contacting the police, as somebody wise said to me, if this person is capable of things so daring and nasty, what else are they capable of? xxxxx

19 May 2011

The Gardai have wonderful female detectives that have been trained to deal with issues of a sexual nature. I know this because my wife has been involved in some of their training, mainly around domestic violence, & sexual abuse. However I understand that your case involves none of the above per se, but they will be understanding and sympathetic to your issue, and will not in any way be judgemental towards you. If I were in your shoes, I'd be going to make a complaint to the Gardai, but that is your call and I dont want to influence you either way. Best of luck, he deserves at least a knock on his door from the boys (And girls) in blue. :thumbup:

20 May 2011

Thanks col hun, smile

no I'm talking to someone today :)