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NSA or SOCIAL
the social aspect is just one part of the site....which is organised by sexy and stud...but that is only one part of the site and many choose to get involved as it is a good way of putting faces to names and of making acquaintainces....also for some it would be a good way of breaking the ice....however should you not wish to get involved in that aspect thats your choice totally.....
Just to offer my tuppenceworth...
The longer I'm on Swing4Ireland the more I'm convinced that different people are looking for very different things here. And others are looking for the same thing but at very different levels. There is possibly no area where this applies more than in NSA v social v friendship. I might be wrong, but I sense that only a minority (mainly single males) want to have an extensive series of NSA one-night-stands. Most females and couples, not wanting to risk health, safety and discretion, and possibly because they value friendships, seem to prefer establishing a level of friendship with a small group or indivuals with whom they feel comfortable. Lou's excellent post seemed to be stating something quite like that too. I might be totally wrong in my observations - there is a lot of reading between the lines there - but I offer it as food for thought.
Here's another question that I've been wondering about for some weeks, and this thread has brought it back to mind. Would you prefer to have average sex with someone you like very much or to have mindblowing sex with someone who doesn't mean very much to you?
Best Regards
Cool Hand
Quote by user=pacbel
This is more confusing than ever now. We quite liked the idea of the anonimity of the site or meets set up off the cuff so to speak. Its a whole different thing becoming socially involved don't you think
Simple solution if you don't like the heat stay out of the kitchen..
Sites such as swing offer much more than anominity, one to one meets, small groups, couples with singles, it is all about preference and free choice..
Becoming socialy involved gives members the oppurtunity to get together freely with like minded people, how many people would feel comfortable going into a pub, club and announcing loudly "hey I swing anyone else a swinger, in the building?"
If you wish to preserve your anominity , then the site is a great medium to do so, perhaps a good indicator of why swing sites are so sucessful.
