Hiyas
Just a wee note to say that I hope all the single men invited to attend this fridays meet in dublin do actually show up.
I went to a meet and greet once upon a time and it was the single men who were no shows. And we single women were left menless.....how could you!...lol
With such an abundance of sexy women going on friday any guy would be mad to miss it.
Feisty x x x x x x x see you friday x x x x x x
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no shows at meet and greets
Warming the Bed
Can i go?:-)
Sex God
I think the list is full Now Cutedonjuan,
yes I have to say I have been to a few meet and greets and guess who were the no shows?...the single guys.
Lads this is a chance to meet some people from the site in a neutral venue with no pressure, and I can vouch I've had many great meets and swing party invites off the back of initial contact with people at meet and greets.
Sex God
Hmmm not many lads stepping in to defend themselves here, or to make a comment on this. Jaysus you must have some opinion on this?
Sex God
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Hmmm reading this one would think that the only ones who were time-wasters on the site were men when that's not the case at all.
ah yer just chatting the wrong women style
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Hmmm reading this one would think that the only ones who were time-wasters on the site were men when that's not the case at all.
No not at all but the majority are, I've held a few parties and it was always the single males that never showed. Then they wonder why single males dont get invited to parties but as you say it's not just the males....happy easter
Master of Sex
i am sorry we cant go but you all have fun and lots well happy christmas to you all have a ball now i dont mean alan ball lol but you have lots of fun too alan ball xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Amber you loon, it's xmas time not easter LOL
No not at all but the majority are, I've held a few parties and it was always the single males that never showed. Then they wonder why single males dont get invited to parties but as you say it's not just the males....happy easter
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Hmmm reading this one would think that the only ones who were time-wasters on the site were men when that's not the case at all.
No not at all but the majority are, I've held a few parties and it was always the single males that never showed. Then they wonder why single males dont get invited to parties but as you say it's not just the males....happy easter
Think it's that old arguement really if you ask a lot of the guys they would say the women are the time wasters and the women would say it's the men. Not giving any point of view on it other than to say there will always be people who will talk about attending meets etc and not turn up male & female alike don't think you can sterotype people into a particular group.
Hi All
I was just reading the thread about no shows. Last night I was invited to a party. Just hours before I was to leave for the party I have visitors landing on my door. As I hadn't see them in a while I felt it would be rude to be un-welcoming to them. I informed the host I would be late but be the time they leave it was too late. I did contact the host again and inform them. I felt very bad about been a no show but it was out of my control.
I think there is time when somethings out of your control but there is some who don't have the manners to contact the host or give a genuine excuse
Corkgirl
Master of Sex
hi all glad you all had fun i sad i missed it but next time now single guys you had your chance why did you blow it
I was there on Friday and there was a distinct lack of single guys i agree.... considering the amount of 'count me in' replies to the thread me thinks all talk and no action guys! I have often had to ring and text around a couple of hours before parties to get more single guys as the usual "have to work late" & "dont think I can make it later" excuses come out and there is a certain ratio of mix between men and women needed are swing parties to ensure they are good sessions. Its a shame more didnt make it as it was just a drinking session - maybe they thought they would be stripped naked and taken advantage of at the bar?? Well maybe the odd one would have ... :cheers:
Casanova
As one who hosted a meet yesterday, I have to say and by and large most people did keep in touch with me regarding their attendance. While I do realise that there can be last minute changes, there is no excuse for not contacting a Host, especially when you have their contact details and you have already stated you would be there.
As a single guy, I always appreciate getting an invite, and has been proven in the past, if I say i will be there, then i will. If I can't I let the person(s) organising know well in advance.
It is such a pity that those who are so eager to go to something are the ones who will let you down, and while single males appear to be the main culprits, they are not alone either.
Well done to Lucy, Amber and all in Dublin for organising a fab meet, and to those who attended mine, thank you so much. It was a night to remember for all the right reasons:evil2:
I have to say it's not great that a lot of us men don't show up for meets.
I've only ever missed 2 meets, one cos of a car crash and the other was a family emergency (my father was in hospital) but i didn't have a number to let the ppl know i wouldn't be there (my fault for not asking i guess).
Now those ppl i was supposed to meet won't arrange another (can't blame them i guess) but sometimes there are genuine reasons for no-shows.
I do wish some more of these meet and greets happened up this way lol
Master of Sex
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Id like to meet the person who try's to stop me
Was the party any good Mark? I was going mad I couldnt make it but said the same when the date was announced, am really looking forward to the next one. hopefully it wont be to far away!
