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27 May 2008

Hi there guys and gals, ive left msgs with plenty of people but so far no one has gotten back or even replied to me, maybe im saying the wrong thing if so sorry, but Im a genuine guy who would like to meet new and exciting people, so give me a shout :sad:

28 May 2008

I think the problem is the volume of messages people get, not that your sayin the wrong thing , I cant speak for everyone else but it very hard to reply to all messages , to even read them tbh , try chattin in rooms nd engagin people in there , you might have more luck

28 May 2008

i agree with u bicurious ive tried to reply to my messages but is hard when u get soo many..and thats y i put on my profile to come and have a chat in the chat rooms if they would like kiss

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28 May 2008

Quote by user=tittywank
i agree with u bicurious ive tried to reply to my messages but is hard when u get soo many..and thats y i put on my profile to come and have a chat in the chat rooms if they would like :kiss:

Hmmmmm,,Surely though,even if someone was getting that much mail,,if they were polite enough,,they should still get around to answering yours? Right??
After all,,it doesn't take a whole lot,,especially to say,"No Thanks"..
I just think lots,,not all,,in here,are just too rude,,and,,stuck up..

31 May 2008

When i first joined i answered every single message i got even if like u say it was just to say no thanks as at the time my profile was fairly sketchy ,ive since changed it nd its clear wat i am and am not lookin for , i still do answer my mail if there sent from the type of people im lookin for , I think that if sumone is expected to answer mail , well the person/s sendin it shud at least read their profile nd see wat they are interested in , thats why i filled mine out , and that saves their time nd my own , nd tats not me been stuck up , im far from it .

31 May 2008

Quote by user=bicuriousme
When i first joined i answered every single message i got even if like u say it was just to say no thanks as at the time my profile was fairly sketchy ,ive since changed it nd its clear wat i am and am not lookin for , i still do answer my mail if there sent from the type of people im lookin for , I think that if sumone is expected to answer mail , well the person/s sendin it shud at least read their profile nd see wat they are interested in , thats why i filled mine out , and that saves their time nd my own , nd tats not me been stuck up , im far from it .

Quite right. I've recieved mail from single guys even though I'm a single straight guy myself. Why should I take time to reply when they've either not bothered reading my profile or have chosen to ignore it?

31 May 2008

ye i agree its hard to reply to all messages i myself do try reply to all messages whether interested or not but sumtimes takes a bit of time to get round to doing it... but also ppl cant expect a reply back to sumthing like hi i d love to F**k you

1 Jun 2008

yeah i agree too ..why would a just say that ..not a good way to get a reply and as 4 putting ur phone number straight into ur massage when we havnt even chatted ...I DONT THINK SOO...try getting to know someone

3 Jun 2008

Well,,we really do agree with NOT getting back to people that don't match what your looking for. After all,,if they took the time to read your profile properly,they'd soon understand that your not a match for them. But,most in here don't read profiles,,they just see a hot sexy pic on the profile,,and they send mail straight away. SAD,,but true. Anyway,We never get a whole lot of mail in here,,so it don't bother us that much,,,hehehehe... rolleyes

4 Jun 2008

i have to agree with bicurious. i added in my profile that i am not into younger guys to try to eliminate mail and still they cum and cum. it is impossible to answer everybody. i look through the mail and if something unusual or different or interesting catches my eye, then i will read and if they guy is older than my last pair of sexy stockings i'll reply. i guess it is impossible to please everybody.

4 Jun 2008

Hi agree with you pussieinboots, I too have updated my profile with the age of guys that I wish to meet with and still younger guys insist on sending mail. I've completed my profile to try help others know what i'm looking for, so why dont some of those guys just read and respect whats in the profile. Also guys please do not just send a few words like " i want to fuck you" or brag about the "size of your gun" yes i've got mail like that. or even just sending your numbers will not get a reply. so if you want to get a reply please at least put effort into your message and read and respect what one has in their profile... also a bit more information in the senders profile too might help in getting a response. anyway that my rant over with for now, enjoy the site and happy swining to all

4 Jun 2008

As a guy in here who has had some replies, (but not loads), I have to agree. Will also add the following; 1. Never be rude 2. Need more than a one liner 3ment on the content of the persons profile to show you actualy took the time to read it n point out any similarities you may have. I'm no expert, but I find if you take time in filtering whom you actualy mail n make sure its genuine you get a much better response. Good Luck!

5 Jun 2008

Quote by user=tittywank
yeah i agree too ..why would a just say that ..not a good way to get a reply and as 4 putting ur phone number straight into ur massage when we havnt even chatted ...I DONT THINK SOO...try getting to know someone

if you want chat you should do it in facebook here the people are looking 4 some action no talk thats is what you find on people's profile,put the number is the fastest way to talk and know people

5 Jun 2008

Quote by user=leonardo
yeah i agree too ..why would a just say that ..not a good way to get a reply and as 4 putting ur phone number straight into ur massage when we havnt even chatted ...I DONT THINK SOO...try getting to know someone

if you want chat you should do it in facebook here the people are looking 4 some action no talk thats is what you find on people's profile,put the number is the fastest way to talk and know people
oh how wrong u are leo...for the majority of people here the social aspect of being on the site equalls or surpasses the sexual benefits. on another post from u it says u bin on here since november and got nowhere.....maybe u need to adjust the way u approach people? Also, calling urself a beautiful couple, while it may or may not be true (eye of the beholder and all that), doesn't exactly endear u to a lot of people - the word conceited springs to mind. just a thought mate. :grin:

5 Jun 2008

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