By "Success" I assume you mean "fuck someone elses missus" or get a single girl.
Read some of the Threads in the various forums.
There are single guys who don't get "success" on the site, but seem to enjoy the chat and on-line interaction, and are patient.
There are those who don't get "success" and moan or gripe.
But, take note of what couples and single females say:
see other threads. The answers, and reasons, are there.
best of luck
jo
You have to realise that most, and i mean most couples have no interest in single guys, or singles at all, the main fun of swinging is to be with someone elses partner while there with yours, to watch and join in. we spend alot of time in the chatrooms, and all are welcome, but lots of the single guys seem to think that if they show there cocks on cam the women will come running.
Lads, learn the art of conversation, dont enter a room and send whispers, it's rude, and comments of "anyone looking for fun??" that wont cut it either, coz lots think it does, take the time to read peeps profiles first, dont just tug it off at the pictures.