Newbie needs help.

13 Jan 2009

Hi i'm new to all this and basically jus lookin for fun wit like minded people and jus finding it hard to find any1 2chat wit,maybe its jus people aren't interested i dunno,i'm jus lookin for a few pointers to chat to a few people 2spice up a very monotonous life.

13 Jan 2009

Thanks dora i will,it jus feels like single men aren't taken serious i'm sure there's alot of gobshites on here there's always some everywhere but it jus makes it hard for da genuines guys to meet any1 or even jus have a simple chat.

13 Jan 2009

Hi ya, bkelly. As many will tell you, don't expect to get an 'actual' meet straight away. (you may do though) But....there is no reaszon why you can't get involved with on-line chatting (via the forums or the chatroom) simply because you're a single bloke. I'd say that if you came in 'heavy' and pushy (=the gobshite) from the start, then you may find some 'non-too-welcome' responses. Advice is to chat on-line (ie public), obey the rules of respect, have some fun....and if something comes out of that then fine; if not then you've still had a bit of fun and maybe made some others have a giggle or some thoughts (that ain't timewasting...surely). jo

14 Jan 2009

Thanks 4 the advice to be honest i'm mainly lookin for open minded people 2have a chat and some jo.

14 Jan 2009

hey guys ur spot on dora and jo..hi bkelly, im donna and i know it is hard for single men but in my case i find that wen guys introduce themselves to mainroom, have a cam or even pics, cam is better, show their face not other anatomy and not be too pushy it will work wonders, oh and be sweet to girls, respect is jst the minimal xxxxxxx good luck

14 Jan 2009

Thanks donna,ye're advice will be very helpful,i'll try put it all into action now!thank alot anyway!