I know that its against site policy to name and shame people, but iv had my time and money wasted two many times on here,one couple arranged to meet and didn't show up, I foolishly believed there excuse and agreed to meet again, they didn't show up a second time !!!!
This weekend a couple invited me to there hotel room, gave me a phone number so I called the lady and she seemed very nice and genuine, put petrol in the car and made to 20 mile trip, only to have her turn off the phone when I said I was there
Single males get a bad rep on here, and that ruins it for the genuine ones, So far iv been messed around on 5 occasions,I think its time there was a way to name and shame the no shows and time wasters on this site, be they male, female or couples,
This would make life alot easier on the site and stop the kind of nonsense that has happened to me and a many others on this site.
just read further down the forums and it seems this is a much bigger problem than I had realised, there defo shud be sumthing done about this
This will never be allowed to happen on here though sadly.
I agree with you baileys, if I met somebody and didn't click, that would be fair enough and I would have absolutely no problem atol with that, but when somebody agrees to a meet then doesn't even show up or txt to say they cant make it or just turn off there phone and ignore you, that's what annoys me
People are allowed to say in the forums and comments that they met x y or z and had a great time at a meet and greet etc, why cant we share our bad experiences we had with site members and let everyone else make up there mind about them ?
If anybody went too far saying anything out of line or overly nasty, the mods would step in just like they already do in the rest of the forums
Maybe this would stop people messing others around
Another side to this, lets saym protool I took against you for something u might have said in chat, so I get the hump and go to the forums and put up a big post how you are a timewaster. Would that be fair?
Anyone could post anything about someone, it would ruin the forums and turn into a big bitching session with the less honest members just using it as a way to get at people who wont meet them
Well that would be up to the mods or site members to weed out the bullshitters, But it seems nothing like this will ever happen on here and that's a shame .
Having been stood up on Saturday at a very late hour,ive come to realise there has to be something maybe a youtube style thumbs up thumbs down system for each member not just a shame wall because that's just too low a level to go.
One other thing, bedtimebaby has a good thread, let common sence, and I agree with that...a bit of cop on goes a long way. We have verification systems here via verify and comments..
Alot of people turn off there comments, the people who stood me up hav turned theres off, even if they had them on,cant u just erase comments off your profile if you dont like them ?
I agree with wispa , A thumbs up or down system wud be a great idea, admins wud hav to approve a thumbs down and the person wud have to provide a reason for it, that way if a profile had nothing but thumbs up it wud prove they are thrust worthy
If they had more thumbs down you would know to avoid them
we have had some no shows, but we get on with it ,its only fun .if the site had a name and shame section anyone could name someone for other reasons, who is to prove otherwise, i think if your stood up ,get over it
Ye iv come to the realisation that this is just a part of life, still interesting to see the split decision on the poll