Its all very well everyone coming together and fondling each others testicles now but im really not interested at this stage.
This whole rules and mod thing has become too personlised for me entirely.
To give an example a couple said to me on open chat "hope you come to the meet and greet", implying more or less that if i go to the meet and greet id get hassle ,all at the expense of everyone elses my mailbox is still talk.
I have come to the realisation that im not going to get anywhere one instance i have ppl wanting rules enforced and on the other hand i have ppl saying iim a cunt basically simply for doing my job ( an upaid one) on chat.
While those that came on here and commented about me (they are entitled to do it), the rest who i have helped stayed out and said other mods stayed out and said i end up on the losing end of the stick here ,then if they backed me ,they may lose too.
One mod on here,had constant hassle with texts from daily hassle which i put an end same mod kicked a person from chat and when i backed that same mod up against the other party here on the forums, the mod simple stayed out of it again.
I have helped numerous ppl on chat and all except two, live4 and bicurious sat back and let me be attacked and ganged up on much for appreiciation these days.
In the case of the directing rooms, i have a choice, warnand kick the ppl there and get abuse back or warn and kick the people that opened the room and get abuse because thye simply wont open a room with directing allowed in its title.I mean is that nuts or what.
Interestingly enough ,yet again Kellie 45 sees fit to blame me and not those that wont obey simple the one here that is soley at fault doing a job giving to me ,im the one dragging the whole site down.
Yet amazing i dont log drunk in the early hours of the morning an dact the bollox, i dont hang around a room with a few other mods and 20 or other ppl while another mod has a room full of 130 ppl to manage on his own.
A person recently said to me that im the one getting the abuse because im the one who is sticking to the whole mod guidlines in the first place.
So do i know go back to chat and help all those that wouldnt help me?Do i go back to chat and kick some but let otehr alne for breaking the same rules?Do i go back to chat and just sit back do f all and throw a warning sign up every now and then?
Well at least at the end of the day i can look in the mirror and say i help those that help me and dont just sit back and watch them get ganged upon which is the case with me.
Westside.
thought it was all hunky dory mate,id have quit modding ages ago if i was you its not worth the hasstle why dont you take a back seat for a while mate and relax and enjoy the fun let other mods handle the stress fr a while
cheers mate
This is hillarious! Hey West you may use now this advice you gave to someone in another post. It´s just a bit of fun... don´t take it personally :laugh:
"I decided to stay becuase i know some very nice appreiciative ppl here are some items you may find helpful during your abcense.
Bye,
Westside."
yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others,
i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate
cheers
you know what west???
screw everyone that puts u down and just get along with the ones that dont.
ur a great guy on here and its not only me and bicurious that think so
stay cool hunni
louise
Tbh, nearly all the mods in here are a joke. This is gonna get confusing, but read on folks... They personally aren't jokes, but with the rules on the chat room, and no caps etc, etc they don't know what they're doing. Each mod does different things for the same "offense". And imho, having no caps as a rule is absolutely ridiculous.
Someone said chat wasn't friendly, I agree, the whole site doesn't seem friendly. I've been here for a coupla years now. More than most of the males who are in chat, actually more than most of the people who are in chat full stop. When I log in, do I get a hello? I'm not asking for a full blown conversation, just a simple Hey, Irelandcock, how are ya? etc etc, I always try to say hello to new people I see in there.
Also when the videochat was introduced, it was brilliant, not too many people in there, but not too few, and everyone seemed friendlyish, but now some people I talked to then, and we're only talking a coupla' months here, wouldn't even say hello to me. Or reply if I said hey to them.
And finally, to the mods, who have let the "power" go to their heads, get a grip on yourselves. You are a moderator, on a goddamned free "Swinging" site - and I say "Swinging" cause not much swinging seems to go on here - you're not god.
As a moderator on a coupla forums myself, and a sysadmin of a site also, a moderator is there to prevent hassle from happening, i.e. if someone saying something is bothering another person, and the moderator has been notified of this annoyance, they then exercise their moderating abilities.
That doesn't mean you ban someone for using CAPITALS.
Irelandcock.
I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.