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Its all very well everyone coming together and fondling each others testicles now but im really not interested at this stage. This whole rules and mod thing has become too personlised for me entirely. To give an example a couple said to me on open chat "hope you come to the meet and greet", implying more or less that if i go to the meet and greet id get hassle ,all at the expense of everyone elses my mailbox is still talk. I have come to the realisation that im not going to get anywhere one instance i have ppl wanting rules enforced and on the other hand i have ppl saying iim a cunt basically simply for doing my job ( an upaid one) on chat. While those that came on here and commented about me (they are entitled to do it), the rest who i have helped stayed out and said other mods stayed out and said i end up on the losing end of the stick here ,then if they backed me ,they may lose too. One mod on here,had constant hassle with texts from daily hassle which i put an end same mod kicked a person from chat and when i backed that same mod up against the other party here on the forums, the mod simple stayed out of it again. I have helped numerous ppl on chat and all except two, live4 and bicurious sat back and let me be attacked and ganged up on much for appreiciation these days. In the case of the directing rooms, i have a choice, warnand kick the ppl there and get abuse back or warn and kick the people that opened the room and get abuse because thye simply wont open a room with directing allowed in its title.I mean is that nuts or what. Interestingly enough ,yet again Kellie 45 sees fit to blame me and not those that wont obey simple the one here that is soley at fault doing a job giving to me ,im the one dragging the whole site down. Yet amazing i dont log drunk in the early hours of the morning an dact the bollox, i dont hang around a room with a few other mods and 20 or other ppl while another mod has a room full of 130 ppl to manage on his own. A person recently said to me that im the one getting the abuse because im the one who is sticking to the whole mod guidlines in the first place. So do i know go back to chat and help all those that wouldnt help me?Do i go back to chat and kick some but let otehr alne for breaking the same rules?Do i go back to chat and just sit back do f all and throw a warning sign up every now and then? Well at least at the end of the day i can look in the mirror and say i help those that help me and dont just sit back and watch them get ganged upon which is the case with me. Westside.
thought it was all hunky dory mate,id have quit modding ages ago if i was you its not worth the hasstle why dont you take a back seat for a while mate and relax and enjoy the fun let other mods handle the stress fr a while cheers mate
Wouldn't normally reply to your threads westside as you know me and mrshdc have no probs with you, but have to agree with tatts, if your not getting any enjoyment out of doing it, why bother? if it's really this much hassle, why not just take a break from it for a while, see how it goes, then if ya want to go back doing it, then so be it. Just a suggestion, not a request smile Regards, MrHDC
This is hillarious! Hey West you may use now this advice you gave to someone in another post. It´s just a bit of fun... don´t take it personally :laugh: "I decided to stay becuase i know some very nice appreiciative ppl here are some items you may find helpful during your abcense. Bye, Westside."
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Wouldn't normally reply to your threads westside as you know me and mrshdc have no probs with you, but have to agree with tatts, if your not getting any enjoyment out of doing it, why bother? if it's really this much hassle, why not just take a break from it for a while, see how it goes, then if ya want to go back doing it, then so be it. Just a suggestion, not a request smile
Regards,
MrHDC

I do enjoy doing it but my probelm now is being left hang out to dry by the other my problem basically,that along with the fact that ppl should contact admin with stuff regarding and not me.I havnt made the rules ,just make sure they are kept.
If i leave modding because of this (not being backed up by the others) then im leaving the site as well.
I will let it to admin for the time quite happy to stay on and help out but it turning into a bit of a joke in my eyes.
I mean defending another mod that wouldnt come here and defend next wiping their arses?
Half the posts on the forums here are done by four same four that obviously have a personal agenda with it wasnt my modding it would be something else.
Westside.
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thought it was all hunky dory mate,id have quit modding ages ago if i was you its not worth the hasstle why dont you take a back seat for a while mate and relax and enjoy the fun let other mods handle the stress fr a while
cheers mate

I know what your sayin gbut this i slike being stabbed in the back to the part that i find nasty.
It wouldnt take five mins to post here and support someone.I was told that i have lots of support on the yeah.
Left hang out to dry Tatts,
Westside.
yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others, i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate cheers
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yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others,
i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate
cheers

Well im bein gvery honest here with fucks me up with this is those that i have helped out alot on the be bothered their arse just giving one bit of support.
As for the other mods,if one of them was in bother i would bend over backwards to help them out.
Me? Have a look? Where are they?I just did a serach right now.A few are online right now having their me, as long as they are ok.
I help out ppl that help the way i am and thats the way ill always will be an dthis goes against everything i stand makes me sick.
Thanks for the words tatts,
Westside.
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yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others,
i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate
cheers

Well im bein gvery honest here with fucks me up with this is those that i have helped out alot on the be bothered their arse just giving one bit of support.
As for the other mods,if one of them was in bother i would bend over backwards to help them out.
Me? Have a look? Where are they?I just did a serach right now.A few are online right now having their me, as long as they are ok.
I help out ppl that help the way i am and thats the way ill always will be an dthis goes against everything i stand makes me sick.
Thanks for the words tatts,
Westside.
We were asked serveral times to become moderators from other moderators, and this is exactly the reason why we said, thanks but no thanks.
The reason being, where as you enforce the rules to the nth degree, we would be prob too leniant which in turn would cause conflict with other mods.
And from what i can see westy is, even tho i don't agree with many things you've said on here, your well capable of looking after yourself here, so wouldn't need any backing from other mods, although i get ur point that it would be nice if they did help.
Also you say ppl should go to admin regarding stuff. We know lots of ppl who have mailed admin over some ussues they have and the majority of them haven't heard a thing back. Admin is rarely around, which is why you's were left to look after the site, which is most likely why people come to you's with any issues they have.
Regards,
MrHDC
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yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others,
i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate
cheers

Well im bein gvery honest here with fucks me up with this is those that i have helped out alot on the be bothered their arse just giving one bit of support.
As for the other mods,if one of them was in bother i would bend over backwards to help them out.
Me? Have a look? Where are they?I just did a serach right now.A few are online right now having their me, as long as they are ok.
I help out ppl that help the way i am and thats the way ill always will be an dthis goes against everything i stand makes me sick.
Thanks for the words tatts,
Westside.
We were asked serveral times to become moderators from other moderators, and this is exactly the reason why we said, thanks but no thanks.
The reason being, where as you enforce the rules to the nth degree, we would be prob too leniant which in turn would cause conflict with other mods.
And from what i can see westy is, even tho i don't agree with many things you've said on here, your well capable of looking after yourself here, so wouldn't need any backing from other mods, although i get ur point that it would be nice if they did help.
Also you say ppl should go to admin regarding stuff. We know lots of ppl who have mailed admin over some ussues they have and the majority of them haven't heard a thing back. Admin is rarely around, which is why you's were left to look after the site, which is most likely why people come to you's with any issues they have.
Regards,
MrHDC
Mr Horny,
I have no probs helping ppl comes natural to me to want to help others.
I am quite capable of dealing with anything thrown at me but it doesnt neccessarily mean i enjoy dealing with it.
Again it would have being a nice gesture ,just a small one ,if other mods had come here and just suggested in any way that this prob is not me looking to ruin the site (thats what has being said) but just sticking to rules that i was given.
I stand over what i said.I always call a spade a didnt do it because if adminwere to remove me then he might see tham as a problem too.
You know something horny, if i thought that admin was removing another mods star for these reasons that these ppl here are attempting to do with em, i would give mine back too.
I always stand up for ppl and never let them hang out to dry.
Westside.
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yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others,
i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate
cheers

Well im bein gvery honest here with fucks me up with this is those that i have helped out alot on the be bothered their arse just giving one bit of support.
As for the other mods,if one of them was in bother i would bend over backwards to help them out.
Me? Have a look? Where are they?I just did a serach right now.A few are online right now having their me, as long as they are ok.
I help out ppl that help the way i am and thats the way ill always will be an dthis goes against everything i stand makes me sick.
Thanks for the words tatts,
Westside.
We were asked serveral times to become moderators from other moderators, and this is exactly the reason why we said, thanks but no thanks.
The reason being, where as you enforce the rules to the nth degree, we would be prob too leniant which in turn would cause conflict with other mods.
And from what i can see westy is, even tho i don't agree with many things you've said on here, your well capable of looking after yourself here, so wouldn't need any backing from other mods, although i get ur point that it would be nice if they did help.
Also you say ppl should go to admin regarding stuff. We know lots of ppl who have mailed admin over some ussues they have and the majority of them haven't heard a thing back. Admin is rarely around, which is why you's were left to look after the site, which is most likely why people come to you's with any issues they have.
Regards,
MrHDC
Mr Horny,
I have no probs helping ppl comes natural to me to want to help others.
I am quite capable of dealing with anything thrown at me but it doesnt neccessarily mean i enjoy dealing with it.
Again it would have being a nice gesture ,just a small one ,if other mods had come here and just suggested in any way that this prob is not me looking to ruin the site (thats what has being said) but just sticking to rules that i was given.
I stand over what i said.I always call a spade a didnt do it because if adminwere to remove me then he might see tham as a problem too.
You know something horny, if i thought that admin was removing another mods star for these reasons that these ppl here are attempting to do with em, i would give mine back too.
I always stand up for ppl and never let them hang out to dry.
Westside.
Hi West! Hmmmm sounds like it's every man/woman for themselves when your a mod in here. That just sucks as it should be that each supports the other when/if they happen to be in any of the rooms here. I was mod on a site for over 2 years and it wasn't easy and sometimes the Admin/Owner made things a bit more difficult by not supporting their mods decisions. Needless to say the site didn't last long and was hacked and it crashed. Has been back now for over a year but will never be as good as it was. Remember how things were when the Admin abandoned this place? We don't go into the chatrooms here very often because it's not the same anymore and never feel welcome in there either. West if things keep going the way they are for you maybe you should give back your mod star. Hope you don't leave here totally though because who is going to make it a more interesting place to be if you leave?!!
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yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others,
i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate
cheers

Well im bein gvery honest here with fucks me up with this is those that i have helped out alot on the be bothered their arse just giving one bit of support.
As for the other mods,if one of them was in bother i would bend over backwards to help them out.
Me? Have a look? Where are they?I just did a serach right now.A few are online right now having their me, as long as they are ok.
I help out ppl that help the way i am and thats the way ill always will be an dthis goes against everything i stand makes me sick.
Thanks for the words tatts,
Westside.
We were asked serveral times to become moderators from other moderators, and this is exactly the reason why we said, thanks but no thanks.
The reason being, where as you enforce the rules to the nth degree, we would be prob too leniant which in turn would cause conflict with other mods.
And from what i can see westy is, even tho i don't agree with many things you've said on here, your well capable of looking after yourself here, so wouldn't need any backing from other mods, although i get ur point that it would be nice if they did help.
Also you say ppl should go to admin regarding stuff. We know lots of ppl who have mailed admin over some ussues they have and the majority of them haven't heard a thing back. Admin is rarely around, which is why you's were left to look after the site, which is most likely why people come to you's with any issues they have.
Regards,
MrHDC
Mr Horny,
I have no probs helping ppl comes natural to me to want to help others.
I am quite capable of dealing with anything thrown at me but it doesnt neccessarily mean i enjoy dealing with it.
Again it would have being a nice gesture ,just a small one ,if other mods had come here and just suggested in any way that this prob is not me looking to ruin the site (thats what has being said) but just sticking to rules that i was given.
I stand over what i said.I always call a spade a didnt do it because if adminwere to remove me then he might see tham as a problem too.
You know something horny, if i thought that admin was removing another mods star for these reasons that these ppl here are attempting to do with em, i would give mine back too.
I always stand up for ppl and never let them hang out to dry.
Westside.
Hi West! Hmmmm sounds like it's every man/woman for themselves when your a mod in here. That just sucks as it should be that each supports the other when/if they happen to be in any of the rooms here. I was mod on a site for over 2 years and it wasn't easy and sometimes the Admin/Owner made things a bit more difficult by not supporting their mods decisions. Needless to say the site didn't last long and was hacked and it crashed. Has been back now for over a year but will never be as good as it was. Remember how things were when the Admin abandoned this place? We don't go into the chatrooms here very often because it's not the same anymore and never feel welcome in there either. West if things keep going the way they are for you maybe you should give back your mod star. Hope you don't leave here totally though because who is going to make it a more interesting place to be if you leave?!!
Surprise here are two ppl that are things with you two lately?
Well your more than welcome in that chat anytime im there ,you know that.I think the site has great potential and i do think that it can work out but not if mods are not sticking together or at least discussing things so we can help it improve more.
We need feedback and feedback is welcome but hot ppl have their knickers in a twist since the good old days when no mods were present and hassle did start up at times.
Anyway, you two know me an dhave met me and i likewise with you two are good and see ye around sometime and hey hot,????go easy with the feckin car will ya or does it juts speed for me
:grin:
Good to hear from you,
Westside.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: rolleyes :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :roll: :laugh: :laugh:
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yeah i understand what your saying mate but if u feel that way bail out surely it fuks up your day reading shit about yourself,think of yourself mate not others,
i would!!!, not meaning to be selfish but its not worth all the shit mate
cheers

Well im bein gvery honest here with fucks me up with this is those that i have helped out alot on the be bothered their arse just giving one bit of support.
As for the other mods,if one of them was in bother i would bend over backwards to help them out.
Me? Have a look? Where are they?I just did a serach right now.A few are online right now having their me, as long as they are ok.
I help out ppl that help the way i am and thats the way ill always will be an dthis goes against everything i stand makes me sick.
Thanks for the words tatts,
Westside.
We were asked serveral times to become moderators from other moderators, and this is exactly the reason why we said, thanks but no thanks.
The reason being, where as you enforce the rules to the nth degree, we would be prob too leniant which in turn would cause conflict with other mods.
And from what i can see westy is, even tho i don't agree with many things you've said on here, your well capable of looking after yourself here, so wouldn't need any backing from other mods, although i get ur point that it would be nice if they did help.
Also you say ppl should go to admin regarding stuff. We know lots of ppl who have mailed admin over some ussues they have and the majority of them haven't heard a thing back. Admin is rarely around, which is why you's were left to look after the site, which is most likely why people come to you's with any issues they have.
Regards,
MrHDC
Mr Horny,
I have no probs helping ppl comes natural to me to want to help others.
I am quite capable of dealing with anything thrown at me but it doesnt neccessarily mean i enjoy dealing with it.
Again it would have being a nice gesture ,just a small one ,if other mods had come here and just suggested in any way that this prob is not me looking to ruin the site (thats what has being said) but just sticking to rules that i was given.
I stand over what i said.I always call a spade a didnt do it because if adminwere to remove me then he might see tham as a problem too.
You know something horny, if i thought that admin was removing another mods star for these reasons that these ppl here are attempting to do with em, i would give mine back too.
I always stand up for ppl and never let them hang out to dry.
Westside.
Hi West! Hmmmm sounds like it's every man/woman for themselves when your a mod in here. That just sucks as it should be that each supports the other when/if they happen to be in any of the rooms here. I was mod on a site for over 2 years and it wasn't easy and sometimes the Admin/Owner made things a bit more difficult by not supporting their mods decisions. Needless to say the site didn't last long and was hacked and it crashed. Has been back now for over a year but will never be as good as it was. Remember how things were when the Admin abandoned this place? We don't go into the chatrooms here very often because it's not the same anymore and never feel welcome in there either. West if things keep going the way they are for you maybe you should give back your mod star. Hope you don't leave here totally though because who is going to make it a more interesting place to be if you leave?!!
Surprise here are two ppl that are things with you two lately?
Well your more than welcome in that chat anytime im there ,you know that.I think the site has great potential and i do think that it can work out but not if mods are not sticking together or at least discussing things so we can help it improve more.
We need feedback and feedback is welcome but hot ppl have their knickers in a twist since the good old days when no mods were present and hassle did start up at times.
Anyway, you two know me an dhave met me and i likewise with you two are good and see ye around sometime and hey hot,????go easy with the feckin car will ya or does it juts speed for me
:grin:
Good to hear from you,
Westside.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Well you know yourself West! Be great to get this site back to where it could be and hopefully it will in time. Mods need to stick together and show some support. Nothing worse than a divided team that has no idea what it's doing! Chat to you sometime West! Nice to see you too. I'll take it easy with the speeding alright, but not making any promises now!
you know what west??? screw everyone that puts u down and just get along with the ones that dont. ur a great guy on here and its not only me and bicurious that think so stay cool hunni louise
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you know what west???
screw everyone that puts u down and just get along with the ones that dont.
ur a great guy on here and its not only me and bicurious that think so
stay cool hunni
louise

Live,
I simply have come to the conclusion that i am indeed wrong.I simply didnt realise that the problem with a few here is a genetic one and for that im deeply and truely sorry.
What can we do?Give them an instructional booklet on a few basic rules?Must we wait until they have finally passed their junior cert or is this an ongoing project to clone the worlds first mentally constipated swinger?
From what i have read from my proposed tormenters here is that there are certain requirements needed to post and expect someone to understand ability to string a half decent sentence together appears to be the minimum.
Anyway i could go genetic and we must simply adjust our way of thinking to vaguely attempt to grasp any everyday logic from these posts.
Scooters latest post has done nothing but reminded me of my latest bout of the runs.
God help us all,
Westside.
i agree with live here westy kiss
:laugh:If you talk it you must know IT :laugh: :laugh: rolleyes
:grin: :grin: :grin:
Tbh, nearly all the mods in here are a joke. This is gonna get confusing, but read on folks... They personally aren't jokes, but with the rules on the chat room, and no caps etc, etc they don't know what they're doing. Each mod does different things for the same "offense". And imho, having no caps as a rule is absolutely ridiculous. Someone said chat wasn't friendly, I agree, the whole site doesn't seem friendly. I've been here for a coupla years now. More than most of the males who are in chat, actually more than most of the people who are in chat full stop. When I log in, do I get a hello? I'm not asking for a full blown conversation, just a simple Hey, Irelandcock, how are ya? etc etc, I always try to say hello to new people I see in there. Also when the videochat was introduced, it was brilliant, not too many people in there, but not too few, and everyone seemed friendlyish, but now some people I talked to then, and we're only talking a coupla' months here, wouldn't even say hello to me. Or reply if I said hey to them. And finally, to the mods, who have let the "power" go to their heads, get a grip on yourselves. You are a moderator, on a goddamned free "Swinging" site - and I say "Swinging" cause not much swinging seems to go on here - you're not god. As a moderator on a coupla forums myself, and a sysadmin of a site also, a moderator is there to prevent hassle from happening, i.e. if someone saying something is bothering another person, and the moderator has been notified of this annoyance, they then exercise their moderating abilities. That doesn't mean you ban someone for using CAPITALS. Irelandcock.
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Tbh, nearly all the mods in here are a joke. This is gonna get confusing, but read on folks... They personally aren't jokes, but with the rules on the chat room, and no caps etc, etc they don't know what they're doing. Each mod does different things for the same "offense". And imho, having no caps as a rule is absolutely ridiculous.
Someone said chat wasn't friendly, I agree, the whole site doesn't seem friendly. I've been here for a coupla years now. More than most of the males who are in chat, actually more than most of the people who are in chat full stop. When I log in, do I get a hello? I'm not asking for a full blown conversation, just a simple Hey, Irelandcock, how are ya? etc etc, I always try to say hello to new people I see in there.
Also when the videochat was introduced, it was brilliant, not too many people in there, but not too few, and everyone seemed friendlyish, but now some people I talked to then, and we're only talking a coupla' months here, wouldn't even say hello to me. Or reply if I said hey to them.
And finally, to the mods, who have let the "power" go to their heads, get a grip on yourselves. You are a moderator, on a goddamned free "Swinging" site - and I say "Swinging" cause not much swinging seems to go on here - you're not god.
As a moderator on a coupla forums myself, and a sysadmin of a site also, a moderator is there to prevent hassle from happening, i.e. if someone saying something is bothering another person, and the moderator has been notified of this annoyance, they then exercise their moderating abilities.
That doesn't mean you ban someone for using CAPITALS.
Irelandcock.

Hi Ireland,
It all boils down to the fact that everyone is me ,its not a case of power going to my head.I have better areas for just the way i am and see things.
If admin got back to me and told me to back off a bit, i would take it on the chin and back off a bit.
I agree that the caps rule is a bit silly at times.
I would say to those that criticise mods ,to try and mod here yourselves.I did both, mod here and criticised them on the forums and i can say that my view would be very different now.
Westside.
I wasn't criticising you at all. The Irelandcock does not name names. Irelandcock.
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I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.

Hey np but i can your point and a few points that have being made.
A happy medium is what is needed but the prob is drawing the line of a happy medium with fixed rules.
Its more difficult than it cant be seen to be harsh on one person and more lenient with would defeat the whole purpose.
Westside.
Quote by user=westside
I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.

Hey np but i can your point and a few points that have being made.
A happy medium is what is needed but the prob is drawing the line of a happy medium with fixed rules.
Its more difficult than it cant be seen to be harsh on one person and more lenient with would defeat the whole purpose.
Westside. great introduction to a swing site this is not cant belive all this shitetalk is centered on one person speakers coner is the place for shite talk not a swingers site let the swinging commence .
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I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.

Hey np but i can your point and a few points that have being made.
A happy medium is what is needed but the prob is drawing the line of a happy medium with fixed rules.
Its more difficult than it cant be seen to be harsh on one person and more lenient with would defeat the whole purpose.
Westside. great introduction to a swing site this is not cant belive all this shitetalk is centered on one person speakers coner is the place for shite talk not a swingers site let the swinging commence .
Introduction?What do you want a free autographed T-shirt?Welcome to Swing on the front,beware of West on the back??
Westside.
Quote by user=westside
I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.

Hey np but i can your point and a few points that have being made.
A happy medium is what is needed but the prob is drawing the line of a happy medium with fixed rules.
Its more difficult than it cant be seen to be harsh on one person and more lenient with would defeat the whole purpose.
Westside. great introduction to a swing site this is not cant belive all this shitetalk is centered on one person speakers coner is the place for shite talk not a swingers site let the swinging commence .
Introduction?What do you want a free autographed T-shirt?Welcome to Swing on the front,beware of West on the back??
Westside.
no tee shirt required ,but we did think we had joined a swing site ,going by these forum yokes it just seems to be a constant posting off one mans inflated ego . as for beware of west whoever he is . that sounds awfully like a threat ,so if someone could let us know how to delete our profile please ,we dont want to be on a place were such nastiness can happen . thanks but no thanks ,macnessa
Quote by user=macnessa
I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.

Hey np but i can your point and a few points that have being made.
A happy medium is what is needed but the prob is drawing the line of a happy medium with fixed rules.
Its more difficult than it cant be seen to be harsh on one person and more lenient with would defeat the whole purpose.
Westside. great introduction to a swing site this is not cant belive all this shitetalk is centered on one person speakers coner is the place for shite talk not a swingers site let the swinging commence .
Introduction?What do you want a free autographed T-shirt?Welcome to Swing on the front,beware of West on the back??
Westside.
no tee shirt required ,but we did think we had joined a swing site ,going by these forum yokes it just seems to be a constant posting off one mans inflated ego . as for beware of west whoever he is . that sounds awfully like a threat ,so if someone could let us know how to delete our profile please ,we dont want to be on a place were such nastiness can happen . thanks but no thanks ,macnessa
A threat?Nope i unlike some here dont make online threats from behind my shiney keyboard.
Your thinking that was a threat shows that you jumped in here without knowin gthe true facts.
Westside.
PS your comment is an insult to many (hundreds of) ppl who are not nasty. I also have a feeling your not so new but your profile try.
Quote by user=macnessa
I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.

Hey np but i can your point and a few points that have being made.
A happy medium is what is needed but the prob is drawing the line of a happy medium with fixed rules.
Its more difficult than it cant be seen to be harsh on one person and more lenient with would defeat the whole purpose.
Westside. great introduction to a swing site this is not cant belive all this shitetalk is centered on one person speakers coner is the place for shite talk not a swingers site let the swinging commence .
Introduction?What do you want a free autographed T-shirt?Welcome to Swing on the front,beware of West on the back??
Westside.
no tee shirt required ,but we did think we had joined a swing site ,going by these forum yokes it just seems to be a constant posting off one mans inflated ego . as for beware of west whoever he is . that sounds awfully like a threat ,so if someone could let us know how to delete our profile please ,we dont want to be on a place were such nastiness can happen . thanks but no thanks ,macnessa
A threat?Nope i unlike some here dont make online threats from behind my shiney keyboard.
Your thinking that was a threat shows that you jumped in here without knowin gthe true facts.
Westside.
PS your comment is an insult to many (hundreds of) ppl who are not nasty. I also have a feeling your not so new but your profile try.
Quote by user=macnessa
I wasn't criticising you at all.
The Irelandcock does not name names.
Irelandcock.

Hey np but i can your point and a few points that have being made.
A happy medium is what is needed but the prob is drawing the line of a happy medium with fixed rules.
Its more difficult than it cant be seen to be harsh on one person and more lenient with would defeat the whole purpose.
Westside. great introduction to a swing site this is not cant belive all this shitetalk is centered on one person speakers coner is the place for shite talk not a swingers site let the swinging commence .
Introduction?What do you want a free autographed T-shirt?Welcome to Swing on the front,beware of West on the back??
Westside.
no tee shirt required ,but we did think we had joined a swing site ,going by these forum yokes it just seems to be a constant posting off one mans inflated ego . as for beware of west whoever he is . that sounds awfully like a threat ,so if someone could let us know how to delete our profile please ,we dont want to be on a place were such nastiness can happen . thanks but no thanks ,macnessa
A threat?Nope i unlike some here dont make online threats from behind my shiney keyboard.
Your thinking that was a threat shows that you jumped in here without knowin gthe true facts.
Westside.
PS your comment is an insult to many (hundreds of) ppl who are not nasty. I also have a feeling your not so new but your profile try.