meeting a couple

3 Mar 2008

just wanted to get a males point of view on meeting a couple.... Would you as a male feel more comfortable meeting just the fem on her own first or would you rather meet both at the same time????

3 Mar 2008

Probably both at same is always that potential tension there between two guys but I'd say you'd have that sussed from the matter which way you look at it it's going to be awkward initially but then as long as everyone is ok with each other and upfront from the start then hey - lets go!! I think I sent you guys a message already ?!

5 Mar 2008

I am friends with a few couples and have always found it easier to meet daytime for a coffee first, that way both parties can walk away with no embarressment. works for me.

5 Mar 2008

I had a weird experience when I arranged to meet a couple, the guy turned up alone and claimed his partner wasn't feeling well. It turned into kind a a creepy evening and I never saw her in the end, just went home. After that i'd definitely want to meet both parts of the couple first. A daytime meet for coffee actually sounds like a great idea.

6 Mar 2008

Yes, you'd need to meet both, and ensure that both partners were into tswinging or whatever. A casual meet would be best at first, I'd imagine

7 Mar 2008

as a cple with lots of experience . never let the female go to meet on her own just to many wierdos out there . if meeting cples let the girls arrange the meetings

7 Mar 2008

Quote by user=hornydubcpl4
just wanted to get a males point of view on meeting a couple.... Would you as a male feel more comfortable meeting just the fem on her own first or would you rather meet both at the same time????

Its best to meet all parties at the same time.
Far better,
Westside.

8 Mar 2008

in our case, the women usually talk on the phone first then if its genuine, they will meet up first, me i just go along with her decision, if she is happy so am i.