“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate
Love can indeed make everything so bad feel so good, yet turn everything so good, into something so so bad.
jesus boo - i feel a little anamositiy there hun.....:giggle: weve all fallen in love and been hurt but we will all go thru it again at some point
i just hope the next time you wont be hurt like u have so obviously been before:therethere:
DORA...............:-?:-? theres no santa:upset::upset::upset:
"When I saw you, I was afraid to meet you... When I met you, I was afraid to kiss you... When I kissed you, I was afraid to love you... Now that I love you, I'm afraid to lose you."
I love this quote, sums up love perfectly, but it doesn't always work out Boo, for lots of reasons..
Love isn't shite hun, it is exhilarating and wonderful, if you are lucky it lasts, if not then best to move on and learn from the experience..
Better to be on yoru own than loving a person who isn't able to return the same to you:therethere:
P as someone who had only experienced unconditional love as a father ,sorry i never loved any off my baby mothers, i experienced lots off lows and heartaches that relationships bring ,along with good times and highs,until i fell totally in love in my mid thirtes which lifted me to a higher plain than i knew existed ,and i have to say i am still crazy in love 15 yrs later ,yes love hurts ,but its brilliant state of mind to be in :inlove: ps poor mrs santa
So it would seem that the only way to stay in love is not to have kids?? Damn, that's harsh.