Love is they say what makes the world go round but is it an illusion or fabrication used by organised society to keep urges and lusts under control. If for example love and lust were not different would not sites like this be defunked or useless. I mean now as regards the people who swing or cheat. We may in the romantic terms love someone but lust for others sexually or just other experiences. I myself have lots of thoughts on this but would enjoy hearing other views. As for romantic love even though I pose the question I do believe it exists but in a true relationship maybe and I say just maybe lust outside the relationship can help make that love stronger. Therefore I believe love and lust are together yet apart but also so different....
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Love and lust.... Together or apart...
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Well swinging has made our relationship much stronger. Trust being the main reason for this. I love to watch my wife with another guy, even if I dont join in. Have done many many times and not once was I ever jealous or envious in any way. I hope to watch her with a guy again very very soon too. We meet a guy every so often, we travel to Scotland to meet him and he travels to our home too. What you have to remember is that we are in love with each other, she may be sexually attracted to the guy she is playing with, but that is the only emotion she will share with that playpal. Nothing else is shared between them but a need for nsa sex.
Its me she shares her joys, fears and everything in between with. Its me she comes to when she is worried about something. Its me she comes to when she has any kind of problem. Its me she shares her happiness with. Its me she has built our home with and its me she will come to whenever she needs a cuddle, and wants to be held and felt protected. Also youve got to understand that it works both ways and my wife will always be the person I go to for the above.
Yeah, there is a huge difference between love and lust.
i agree with you and it was so well put :clap:. some people might be uncomfortable with my openess, but i was on the site before with my hubby and, we always interested in swinging, it didnt work for us at that time because we were in a rut, not talking, looking after kids and forgot each other and nearly split. now we are much closer and you are right our partners are there for everything, they see us at our worst and still love us n thats the difference for me. ok prob rambling but wat i mean is theres love and lust, but no harm in sharing the lust :angel::angel:
