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:Pplease dont go we all lurve you :inlove:
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:therethere:aaah, lou!!i was very sad to hear that you might be leaving s4i!!it wont be the same in here without you!!!
hwoar:no longer will i be able to log in after a hard day, and see your beautiful mug on cam!!for me, you are the face of this great site!!i will miss your great humour, and your witty put-downs of those peeps that dare to piss you off!!maybe admin can make you honourery presiedent or something!!:smile2:well, lou,,i hope you will change your mind and stay, (like addidas!!)but if you go :upset:,i hope you and yours are very happy in the years ahead!!.:rose:and remember, lou, dont be a stranger!!:cheers:
:therethere:aaah, lou!!i was very sad to hear that you might be leaving s4i!!it wont be the same in here without you!!!hwoar:no longer will i be able to log in after a hard day, and see your beautiful mug on cam!!for me, you are the face of this great site!!i will miss your great humour, and your witty put-downs of those peeps that dare to piss you off!!maybe admin can make you honourery presiedent or something!!:smile2:well, lou,,i hope you will change your mind and stay, (like addidas!!)but if you go :upset:,i hope you and yours are very happy in the years ahead!!.:rose:and remember, lou, dont be a stranger!!:cheers: 
Warming the Bed
ah ffs, why you's even bothering with this. You know she's not gonna leave. She says this every 2-3 months lol. She's addicted to here as much as the rest of us lol.
Well I'm not going to vote on this as yes Id rather see lou stay but weather she does or she doesn't is up to herself , one thing I know is lou has a strong mind and will do what she feels right and if she feels thats to leave well so be it , I met lou a year ago exactly and have found a lifelong friend on and off swing so if she leaves it just means more phone calls and more petrol in my car 
love ya lou :inlove:
love ya lou :inlove: Sarah ur a fecking wagon for starting this thread:giggle:
I havnt totally decided whether to stay or go - there are a few reasons im thinking of doing it.
1st of all - yes ive met someone and it looks like going the distance:inlove: so being on here would rather defeat the purpose.
But i have to say its more cause of the grief that I and single females get in general that is getting me thinking about leaving here. Its gotten to the stage that a day doesnt go by that a female is abused online - whether its about the way we look on cam - or if we dare say no to someone were called fake, a bitch, or other names i wont care to mention.
This is primarily a single female problem as couples seem to have a sort of protection zone being that - there a couple. Im not asking for special treatment - and yes - the mods do work very hard - being one in the past i know exactly how hard it is.
The new man in my life doesnt have a problem with me chatting on here - so thats not the primary reason i dont want to be here. As lou and addies said - i wont be closing my account down - il probably pop in and out - but not half as frequently as i normally do.
Rant over - thanks for everyone that has posted :-o - even u james:dry: - and lets face it - most of the guys that posted i have there phone numbers so we will still have our famous dublin nights out:beer: - breakfast on me of course:giggle:
Lou xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
But i have to say its more cause of the grief that I and single females get in general that is getting me thinking about leaving here. Its gotten to the stage that a day doesnt go by that a female is abused online - whether its about the way we look on cam - or if we dare say no to someone were called fake, a bitch, or other names i wont care to mention.
This is primarily a single female problem as couples seem to have a sort of protection zone being that - there a couple. Im not asking for special treatment - and yes - the mods do work very hard - being one in the past i know exactly how hard it is.
Well bloody said Lou!!!!!!!!!!
I had an idea this may have been a factor in your leaving, but why the hell should it Lou?
In all honesty I felt exactly the same, tired of exactly what you have described, abuse and nastiness form guys , who no doubt only joined as a result of a certain 'trash expose', thinking all of us are easy lays, and god help us if we don't reply to the crap mail, or fail to show an interest.
Some of the comments in chat aimed at the single women are sickening to say the least, this is primarily a swinging site, people do not leap into bed straight away..
Listen Lou I have been insulted like yourself, ffs on one occasion accused of being a man in chat, and when I berated the member back, I was lept on by a posse of young males and insulted!!!!!!
To be honest Lou I now am only here for forums and the odd time go into the chatroom, but why should that stop me from being onsite?..
Over the last few years I have realised that I am A true swinger at heart, same as yourself Lou, but that does not mean we have to have sex with anyone...
Stay on the site Lou, you are one of the most respected members here, and two bloody god damn fingers to any guy who insults you!
Sex God
Well I have Left it a bit to say what I have to say on this.
I First got chatting to Lou right about October having kept to myself before that and I have to say she is a sterling Lass, talks her mind, which a lot dont like but its a trait I greatly respect her for. She will be a missed face if she does go but at the end of the day its her decision to make and if she has found a good fella that can put manners on her fair dues to her 
Well lou ye ride, me and jax wud be sad if ye weren't around, ur gas craic even if ur taste in music is somewhat dubious. Having said that I hear what ur sayin re. the abuse....I dived into the fray in defense of slightly the other day (not that she needs it, but she's kinda special to us) and got it in the neck for me pains. I will say tho that ur wrong about couples...I know a few who have been royally slagged off - both partners mind - and even little old me has had the odd bit of abuse from time to time, but fuck 'em hun.
I'd just like to say as a parting shot that we wish u all the luck in the world babe - if the fella u've found is that special ur a lucky girl, and he's an even luckier guy. take care, and give us a tinkle sometime.
Andy and Jax
Lou i do hope you don't go, however, as the fem of a cpl i have to disagree on the cpl thing. I get a huge amount of abuse on cam 2 and have also been called a man - while i was on cam ffs. i now ignore all these comments and just enjoy the banter with the people that i've gotten to know on the site.....like everything there will always be a good and a bad side to everything but i do enjoy the banter and the laughs that are had in the rooms......
:therethere:Lou f you do go I I'll miss you even though im not in chat much recently I can always be sure of a warm welcome when I enter a room that you are in. I am not in chat much for my own reasons but every now and then I like to go in when I feel the need to chat and normally come away from it feeling better then I did when I went in. So not deleting your account is a good idea.
Lou you are well able for any abuse you get in chat.
I have chatted to you about your new chap and I hope (from the heart of my bottom :grinthat it is all it appears to be and that it is as you say the real thing!
If you go I will miss you"
If you stay happy days!
Best of luck what ever you decide :thumbup:
that it is all it appears to be and that it is as you say the real thing!
If you go I will miss you"
If you stay happy days!
Best of luck what ever you decide :thumbup: Lou Sumbody told me I don't seem like tha type 2 meet people, ffs shur that's as gud as sayin I don't function or am non-existent ffs, how m I sposed 2 "function" in tha knowledge that sumbody I don't evn kno can and did decide to come up with that assumption/conclusion!! Actually that's makin me mad now tinkin bout it, I better stop thinkin bout it. :-) Shur they'll always be sum asses n eejits n tha world of chat-rooms, but ours needs Lou in it!! :worship:
We need ur girl-powerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
:angel: :twofingers: :color:
We'll miss 2 far 2 much 2 function whn ur gone :upset: 
How dya do those Poll things, I s gonna do a Poll 4 Mrl4l 2 chat on Swing 2.
:smug: :smile2: :happy:
Don't give up jus yet Stay n Chat on Swinggggggg.
:giveup: :giveup: :giveup:
:worship:
We need ur girl-powerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
:angel: :twofingers: :color:
We'll miss 2 far 2 much 2 function whn ur gone :upset:
How dya do those Poll things, I s gonna do a Poll 4 Mrl4l 2 chat on Swing 2.
:smug: :smile2: :happy:
Don't give up jus yet Stay n Chat on Swinggggggg.
:giveup: :giveup: :giveup: Lou wen i first came on swing4ireland lol u were the one that talked to me apart from men wanting to get into my pants lol... i looked upon u as a type of mentor cos wen i wanted to go on cam i asked u wat if someone u know sees u and u quite frankly told me but there on the site too lol... i do understand the thing with some of the prats on here... believe me more so wen i was single, i have my "protection" now lol.. i have a lot of respect for u and regardless of if u leave or not i think i wanted to tell u this anyway
thanks for all the replys - bar tonys
after speaking to a few on here close to me - u know who u are - ive decided to stay for now - but not to go on cam anymore.
i tried it out last night - not going on cam i mean - and low and behold - no abuse.
It must be a - "if shes on cam - shes fair game to be abused" mentality that some guys have - and frankly it stinks.
It might be a good thing thou - many of u - tony and barry (escapadebass)- not looking at anyone in particular:P - hate my music - so its one less avenue of abuse that im gonna get:giggle:
It wasnt a rant as some like to think it was - and if the abuse continues - i will be gone soon - as my experiment wont have worked and i refuse to continue to take the abuse - if i wanted it - id have stayed with my ex
Many thanks again for the support in here and in the chat rooms
lou xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
after speaking to a few on here close to me - u know who u are - ive decided to stay for now - but not to go on cam anymore.
i tried it out last night - not going on cam i mean - and low and behold - no abuse.
It must be a - "if shes on cam - shes fair game to be abused" mentality that some guys have - and frankly it stinks.
It might be a good thing thou - many of u - tony and barry (escapadebass)- not looking at anyone in particular:P - hate my music - so its one less avenue of abuse that im gonna get:giggle:
It wasnt a rant as some like to think it was - and if the abuse continues - i will be gone soon - as my experiment wont have worked and i refuse to continue to take the abuse - if i wanted it - id have stayed with my ex
Many thanks again for the support in here and in the chat rooms
lou xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Sex God
...Ah Fuck, So that means the 40 choreographed oil covered Midgets and the huge Cake with me Hiding in the middle waiting to jump out were all ordered in Vain?...ah FFS, gonna have to put them in storage now, anyone want to temporarily adopt a midget?..theyre a bit slippery though.:fuckinghell:
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