Hi,
I've been on this site now for about a month and the thing I really notice is there is a lack of people here in their 20s? Now don't get me wrong I like an older woman, but the reply i often get is "sorry but ur a bit too young" (I'm 23 btw).
Is there women out their in their 20s? If there is I have yet to meet u? Also I'm sure if theres guys out there in ur 20s, have u the same problem?
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Hi Officer....nice to see you in the forums.
Yes there are women in their 20's, but it seems from chat at least...the single fems are predominantly in their 30's.
I for one have said to guys in their 20's that they were too young for me.....but after meeting them socially at meet and greets, you can quickly realise that age is only an number. It personality and attitude that counts. I have met socially a numbe rof guys in their 20;s who understand this lifestyle, who work with it, are respectful and intellgient.....and i have met guys in their 40;s who you would think were years younger in their lack of maturity.
Officer......keep at it...and try get yourself to a meet and greet.
Have a check at the lets meet up forum...there;s a meet coming up soon.
I'm a 23 year old female! :bounce:
You are not the first person I have heard express this. With that being said, I haven't had anyone turn me down due to my age. Then again... I think there are different societal norms for older men being with younger women versus older women being with younger men. I think a lot of older women equate immaturity with men in their early 20s... but I don't know, you would have to ask them
I'm afraid to say it... but I too tend to gravitate toward older men. Age really doesn't matter, but it's normally the older guys (25-35) that I get on with the most.
I do hope you find what you're looking for on the site!
You are not the first person I have heard express this. With that being said, I haven't had anyone turn me down due to my age. Then again... I think there are different societal norms for older men being with younger women versus older women being with younger men. I think a lot of older women equate immaturity with men in their early 20s... but I don't know, you would have to ask them
I'm afraid to say it... but I too tend to gravitate toward older men. Age really doesn't matter, but it's normally the older guys (25-35) that I get on with the most.
I do hope you find what you're looking for on the site!
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Warming the Bed
I think the single guys have a more difficult time in the scene, especially the younger ones. Also many swingers are looking for couples and this normally raises the age profile.
Forum Virgin
i agree with yummy but i also get the same response about the age gap. dont worry tho there are ppl here for everyone you just have to be patient
Age unfortunately does become an issue, but probably simply due to the fact that if you arrange to meet, what are you going to talk about???
Have been fortunate to met people from early 20s to early 50s, and managed pretty ok to have a decent conversation with all of them, but then again, our preference is to meet people and enjoy a night having a laugh, chatting, having a drink, maybe a meal, just generally enjoying the company of likeminded people where you can talk about things you wouldn't normally with vanilla friends and hey if we all decide to get nawtee at the end of it, thats a bonus, NEVER a necessity.
So why is it that some young people (male and female) find it difficult to hook up with others or each other, its called swinging, its the 21st century, rarely, if ever, these days is the other half gonna meet you at the bar or the front door and drag you into the bedroom, do the 'deed' and then disappear, but alas in chat singles do themselves no favours by directing cammers, talking non stop about what they'd love to do to other users, very few these days are looking for just sex, there has to be some connection with the people you meet or chances are there are going to be a few awkward silences and before you know it, the excuses will be made and it will be time to part ways.
Best practise would be to agree to meet, but expect nothing, at least then there won't be any disappointments to deal with, we're all supposed to be adults, its always a great plus when no matter what age we are, the maturity shines and before you know it, age no longer becomes a barrier in meeting people, but please respect those that have age limits, its their comfort levels, their choice and most of all its what they are looking for.
