lights on or of

8 Aug 2010

Hi ladys would you have sex with the lights on or off in the does it really matter.i notice sometimes that ladys perfer the lights to be off in the bedroom rather than are your ideas on this threads?

8 Aug 2010

Lights on.....always :rascal::rascal::rascal: Gotta see whats going on innocent

:whistling::whistling::whistling: Lights off = :sleeping::sleeping::sleeping: boink

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8 Aug 2010

lights on.......not some big fluorescent one.....but some subtle lighting....i;m the same as cloud...gotta see whats going on. Have to say, years ago i would have said off...or in near darkness.....but the older I have gotten and the more comfortable i am in my own skin....the less I care about what i may look like..... also have to say....when i bought a 3ft x 4ft mirror for my bedroom table.....i got very used to seeing myself from all angles even from just wandering round the room......its amazing how comfortable I got with myself. And if i am honest...i;ve sneaked a peek of two when at eh er other things.....but you know what....its kinda hot.

8 Aug 2010

lights on i like to see what and who i am playing with lol

8 Aug 2010

sorry biggles for jumping in here... but i think most women here would be comfortable in mood lighting.!! but from the few i have meet here light does not seem to be a issue with them

8 Aug 2010

I'm not a huge fan of lights on, or off for that matter. As tatts said mood lighting. It's nice to be able to see but without being blinded when you open your eyes :giggle:

8 Aug 2010

Have 2 agree with Tatts - maybe ur 'lights off' ladies aren't the naughty pervie 1's u met thru s4i ??

9 Aug 2010

I like to see what I'm at, mind you 'soft moody lighting' is preferred more so than a flood lamp with the same output as The ones in Croke Park!!!

12 Aug 2010

I would be of same thinking of most, lights on but not really bright, candle light is good too :devil:

12 Aug 2010

depends on how well I know the person. If it's my first time with someone I might be a bit self conscious and want the lights off or at least dimmed a bit :-o If I've been fucking you for years though, then lights on all the way... doesn't matter. It's about being comfortable in my opinion.

13 Aug 2010

Usually I am a lights on person but recently someone turned the lights off on me and it was very sexy. I didn't know what was going to happen next. Bit like being blindfolded.:lickface: