Let common sense prevail ……..
Ok after a few conversations with both the ladies and gents here I am off the opinion that common sense is not been used to a great existent in regards to your own privacy and safety , I for one have fallen into the trap and wont deny it , Put I learned the hard way fast … this life style isn't just about sexual protection , one also has to have a certain level of personal protection , Anonymity and privacy …
Lets get street smart here ….........................
Would you give your phone number to a person on the street just because they ask ????. NO
Would you give them your email addy ??? … …. . NO
Would you just hand over your address ??? … … NO
So why do we do it here ?? Where is common sense gone ???
Yes we are all here for the 'meet' and to make friends and have good times . Put we also need to remember that not all are as they seem here , its human nature to lie and even more so when it can be done in secrecy and illusionism dont take me up wrong …..there are a lot fabulous , genuine and honest people here and I for one am proud to call some off them my friends …Put there are an minority that as in the real world just aren't so nice …..these are the one we need to guard ourselves and use our street smarts to the highest degree .
So lets just site back and think here for a minute ……….. We still want and need the contact off site , we want and need the communication devices , services , and yes the perks that go with them …Put we need to remember the net is an open book to all who know how to use it , so think twice before you hand over any personal information …
A few ideas to think about that may make it easier , safer and more enjoyable experience for all ....................
Set up a separate addy account for mail and photos , off site chat ect
Get a old mobile ( we all have them ) and a new sim card for calls and text
If meeting make your first meet in a hotel and be sure to have a contact for a friend you never know when you might need a bale out ..
…trust your instincts ..don't be afraid to ask for help or tips from long term remembers or site moderators .
Above all else ………………….. Play safe to be safe ………………………..