I suppose we are usually drunk when in bed and all he wants is a bj non stop. Now I do love giving head but not for fucking hours! Maybe if he is sober he will do stuff I want! He also keeps asking if his dick is big enough, its not, but of course I cant say that. Aggh getting very frustrated coz he is a lovely guy, a good friend but defo cant be doing with bad sex.
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Thanks Lovebird for the advice. I have pulled away saying my jaw was sore, a few mins later he is pushing my head back down that direction so think he is just a selfish muppet when it comes to the bedroom so think dumping him is only thing I can do.
We did have a chat about sex, I asked him was there anywhere he liked having sex, he said in bed. I am a anywhere anytime kinda girl so think I would be bored if he insisted on bed all the time!
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Ha ha, not quite but not far off it. I like adventure and cant be doing with boring sex. Where are the sweet cute guys who love adventure? Probably married or gay. :-(
i think they are all off climbing mountains....and having sex on them...lol....
Probably! Lol. Oh well.
Casanova
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Ha ha, not quite but not far off it. I like adventure and cant be doing with boring sex. Where are the sweet cute guys who love adventure? Probably married or gay. :-(
I do understand your prediciment. I used to be a lot like your guy until I came on here. A lot of it believe me is down to a lack of self confidence and the ability to just let go.
I know you might think thats a lame explanation, but it affected many relationships I was in. Now, since I came on this site and made so many friends, I can't be held back now and will trying anything once and twice and more if I like it!!
But for me, the most important thing is the ability to pleasure the women to the point of holding back on cumming, till you know your woman is well and truly satisfied....that is the truth for me
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Ha ha, not quite but not far off it. I like adventure and cant be doing with boring sex. Where are the sweet cute guys who love adventure? Probably married or gay. :-(
I do understand your prediciment. I used to be a lot like your guy until I came on here. A lot of it believe me is down to a lack of self confidence and the ability to just let go.
I know you might think thats a lame explanation, but it affected many relationships I was in. Now, since I came on this site and made so many friends, I can't be held back now and will trying anything once and twice and more if I like it!!
But for me, the most important thing is the ability to pleasure the women to the point of holding back on cumming, till you know your woman is well and truly satisfied....that is the truth for me
possibly he has just not had enough experience to be adventurous, I was married for years so had the whole boring sex routine even though we did fuck outdoors in daylight quite a bit to try to spice things up but it still was boring but has left me seeking adventure now.
I do crave some good snogging and I does that well, just need to be left fulfilled in other ways too!
Casanova
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possibly he has just not had enough experience to be adventurous, I was married for years so had the whole boring sex routine even though we did fuck outdoors in daylight quite a bit to try to spice things up but it still was boring but has left me seeking adventure now.
I do crave some good snogging and I does that well, just need to be left fulfilled in other ways too!
Good snogging should really set the mood for more and more. I rather love to snog and let my hands wander about too, teasing a bit as well until neither can hold back, and then its get those clothes off as fast as you can......
Lay the lady on her back and continue the kissing, only this time all over and let the fingers work too.....teasing and touching....gosh, am getting turned on myself too...
Casanova
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name of jaysus dar.....wat are ya trying to do to us??? and it only ....tut tut.....lol
lovebird
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I suppose Lovebird, its the promise I made to myself, just let go and be who I am..
I have been boring for too long and want to live and enjoy fun..:evil2:
My sexual prowess has been awoken....and time to let it out:lick: Besides, nothing better than some daytime fun too Lovebird.....help make that Bird sing a sweet song.....:evil2:
Casanova
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:-o:-o:-o:-o
what would the neighbours say????
Fook the neighbours.....when you are horny...you have to be satisfied. And regards cooking and washing...how kinky. Clothes in the washer so we is all naked and cook and :doggy: while the dinner is cooking:lick:
Ah Jeasus guys think ye forgot the original question......Dar you leading these sexy ladies astray again naughty boy go to my room,bend over and take what comming to you :doggy: and maybe next time u lead them astray u might remember to bring me along :giggle:
as for the kissing question,if ur partner is a bad kisser then why stay together,a kiss is like a match,once struck if u dont get a spark u cant start a fire and hunny without a spark Im outta there 
sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me so push me up against the wall and show me that u like me xx Ah alan:lick: it starts with a passionate kiss,a seductive strip and then they tie me down and spank me :thrilled:the best sex always starts with a passionate kiss
assionkiss::passionkiss::doggy::doggy:
sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me so push me up against a wall a show me that u like me xxx
assionkiss::passionkiss::doggy::doggy:
sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me so push me up against a wall a show me that u like me xxx yes elle and then butterfly kisses on the neck down the back round to the belly button and after that the licking fingering spanking and wild wild fucking but you are right a long deep passionate kiss to start while the hands run up and down each others body (bugger, time for a cold shower again)
Casanova
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There is nothing more erotic than kissing...sex is not the same without it, you get turned on naturally and get to have a feel and touch while doing it...
i hate lots of tongue and sloppy kissing or bad breath
Donna I am with you here hun.
Kissing can be such a huge turn on, almost a taste of what is to cum. But sloppy or bad breath
me thinks it's all in the kiss....
My first experience of this was at a teenage disco...jaysus ugh gagging even now thinking of it...immediately as soon as our lips touched i knew it was going to be awful....he tried to suck my face off.
scenario 2 first date with mr lucan....walking me home we got to my corner and he kissed me...omg i could feel the desire the want in his kiss he drew me in...i knew 'i liked this boy' instantley...
scenario 3
A fumble with another female in an inapproprate time and place (cue cringe alert) it was all going fine until we um...kissed ugh all teeth and gum...weird experience really...thats what ye get for having a fantasy..in taking it to the next level....I had already set the backround in my head lol....anyways it all went so so down hil after the kissin....still cringin...
Jo
Only once, with an MMF did the fantasy include no kissing. It was fun, but odd.
Fortunately the women in this community can usually signal what they want quite efficiently. And that usually involves a great range of smooching.
The great thing about even a little peck is that it charges the room and turns even the least significant of contacts into foreplay.
I'm not usually a huge fan of the kama sutra, but this is worth a peruse.
EDIT: The forum removes links. Google "kama sutra kissing"
Wondering if mrsm would kiss me
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Virgogirl are you turning all philosophical on us. Next thing you will tell us its tantric sex only and no wild sweaty sex anymore
Perish the thought
Good god no!!!!!!!!
The wild sweaty sex has just been put on hold for a while, but normal service shall resume at some stage.:giggle:
