Just one tip

16 Nov 2008

Words of wisdom from members should be listened too. If you had just one tip... what would it be?

16 Nov 2008

My tip would be that everyone here is a person and should be approached/ spoken to as such. If you wouldn't say something to someone in a pub then you shouldn't say it to someone here.

16 Nov 2008

Always be yourself, show respect for other members, and never ever do anything that you will look back later and regret..

16 Nov 2008

...Use sunscreen...oh sorry you mean in regards to general conduct, getting on in the site? well I woul;d echo what Addies and Warsp have already said, and add to that be patient, being pushy or aggressive is a one street to 'out on yer arse ville' This site may be a swingers site, but there is an awful stereotype that swingers are moral-less non discerning husseys that would drop theyre trousers/Knickers for all and sundry!, yes people who swing in general have a more liberal approach to sexuality etc, but by no means does it give free licence for idiots that think just because people swing they will jump in the sack with anyone. Its Nice to Be Nice.

16 Nov 2008

The advice above seems very good to me. I'd add that you should try to post/write regularly, either in the forums, the chatrooms or both, and write a fair amount of detail in your profile. Members who remain silent are unknown from the time they join until the time they meet someone here (if ever). By writing often, unless you are a brilliant actor or con-man, you will be making yourself known and other members reading that will take note. They begin to feel that they know you and that you are part of the community. Wishing you all the best... Cool Hand

17 Nov 2008

:P be honest say what you mean .mean what you say, treat others as u would like them to treat you .:thumbup:

17 Nov 2008

read peoples profiles b4 you message them

18 Nov 2008

well my one piece of advice would be tp apply the cautionary principle - if in doubt, don't. "if they can't take a joke, fuck 'em." Andy