hey all just wanted to see if a few ppl feel the same as me.....
i feel lately the site isn't what it used to be ... a good laugh a bit of banter and maybe sum meets if ppl get on well after chatting..
lately it has turned into a bitching session and a popularity contest etc...
ppl have forgotten what this site is for...
its a swing site....its for adults who want to have sum mutual good fun and to help out ppl who want to get into dogging or swinging etc....
i personally would like the site to go back to how it was, have a sum fun online chat , cam and attend the good meets who are organised by sum nice ppl of the site. Have to say the meets were great loland fair play to the ppl who organise them and it shows how well we all got on to go and meet up ....
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I agree with you not the same as it used to ,mistrust etc have created an athmosphere of unease in is why im rarely in chat havnt got the stomach to look at some of the falseness that has arisen in i said "some".Its a good site with some great ppl here and i think it will get better again but its not for me as long as politics prevale.I prefer it the way it was before even with the fakes and abuse thrown at mods (my mod days).
I rather be drugged oh wait LOL
Westside.
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To prevent bitching,or to stop it,,you must first get rid of the "bitches"...Simple as that..
Doesnt a band aid approach because there is no such thing as "bitches".Its the athmoshpere that creates the bitching.
Say for example a single guy who hasnt had a bitches about it and he is entitled to do is sick of fakes ,ppl that have no intentions of meeting by your estimation we must get rid of the single guy here and keep the rest.
What happens in alot instances is this and its nothing but human the start something is new and everything nice and time goes on it becomes complacent and the best approach in that instance is rather than merely go through the motions, take a break, or dont be on as like anything else,new job,new partner,new lovely and dandy first.
This is where a decent populative turnover is other words 100 get bored and take a break,a 100 newbies come along which makes my original point even more vital, absolutly vital that a newbie friendly site exists and im sorry but politics,clannish behaviour or mistrust or anything other negative emotional expressions are not newbie friendly and yes that includes chemically enhanced emotions too.
Im tired now,
Westside.
thanks for ur opinions so far...
i just felt this subject needed to be brought up as we are all ment to be adults here and the bitchyness and other things on the site has got to much that it is driving genuine ppl away and that includes single men too as well as cpls and fems
well ye westside i agree the clannish behaviour as well doesnt help newbies which i feel sorry for.. we were all new on this site at sum time so newbies should be made feel welcome
i just want the site to go back to having a laugh and a bit of banter and actually getting to know ppl before we decide on meeting
Politics is a politics in and youll fuck up the breeding ground for mistrust etc and i saw it coming generally weeks ago.
Also its up to the admin team to market the site well,links on other sites sex industry(yes swinging is the sex industry too) is something where word of mouth is not like your at your local hairdressers and saying "hey check out swing4ireland".Its important that those that leave are replaced as not all that leave will stay away because the curiousity will built up and we'll have a positive should do statistics checks on numbers and go from there,time and cost permitable that is.
Or even an area where improvements can be suggested and that includes modding improvements without fear of being blasphemised.
This is what i meant by censorship, politics or wasnt about me,it was about the site as a need to be kept orginal in the spirit sense while making whatever desirable advancements are neccessary.
Not an easy thing to do,
Westside.
Asa new couple to this site I just wanted to say I thought this wld all b so different!! We put msg after msg up, people seem to look at them but no-one ever replys!Definetley not what I expected, we are a genuine, discreet and trustworthy couple who are new to this scene but it would seem that we're never even goin to get a reply never mind a meet - any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!Ps. Not sure about any bitchin that goes on, but thats probably 'coz everyones ignoring us!!
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Asa new couple to this site I just wanted to say I thought this wld all b so different!! We put msg after msg up, people seem to look at them but no-one ever replys!Definetley not what I expected, we are a genuine, discreet and trustworthy couple who are new to this scene but it would seem that we're never even goin to get a reply never mind a meet - any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!Ps. Not sure about any bitchin that goes on, but thats probably 'coz everyones ignoring us!!
Chat room is the only way to go doesnt do go into chat and get to know ppl and see how it the way it goes here.A lot of ppl dont answer mail here.
Westside.
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hey all just wanted to see if a few ppl feel the same as me.....
i feel lately the site isn't what it used to be ... a good laugh a bit of banter and maybe sum meets if ppl get on well after chatting..
lately it has turned into a bitching session and a popularity contest etc...
ppl have forgotten what this site is for...
its a swing site....its for adults who want to have sum mutual good fun and to help out ppl who want to get into dogging or swinging etc....
i personally would like the site to go back to how it was, have a sum fun online chat , cam and attend the good meets who are organised by sum nice ppl of the site. Have to say the meets were great loland fair play to the ppl who organise them and it shows how well we all got on to go and meet up ....
Totally agree 101%
I agree with hdc4 , but I feel that it is changing back again , a member commented tonite in the beach bar that it was how it should be , a nice crowd in having a laugh , and it was . there has been a bit of shite lately but I feel thats done with now and as mrs h said hopefully we can go back to the way it should be and using the site for what it is for .
Yup,,Agree with most there..Let's bring back the FUN...All this crap over the last few weeks is well off the wall. It's dragging the site down. And it's only taking 1 or 2.
If any of these so called whining/whinging posts pop up again,,ignore them. They won't last long that way.
West,Before you reply with a long boring lecture,We don't want to know anymore..We're here for the FUN..
Let the games begin.........
Quote by user=hornydubcpl4i totally agree with ya horny i dont go on as much now the banter is gone and the bitchiness has took over i was on one night and was told about someone on cam speakin about me was heard plain and clear wot happens is the girls get jealous which hey its a swinging site cop on girls grow up and keep me out of your little world im happy in mine its terrible to say a click has took over and the fun is gone fair play to ya horny for bringin this up x
thanks to the ppl who agree with my post ... bring back the swinging i say lol
I've found myself avoiding the Beach Bar lately, not because of any bitching or anything like that, but because it just seems to be a procession of in-jokes between people who already know each other which can alienate people who are new to the site. I honestly don't mean that as dig, just stating that it can be intimidating for people who are new or who maybe haven't used online chat before.
And westside, I personally prefer to mail people whose profiles I like. It means I can give them an impression of what I'm like without it getting lost amongst the infinite scrolling text in chat. And also because not everybody on here goes into the chatrooms.
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p.s. westside.....u should be a politican!!!i love your posts!!!
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Well Lovebird,
I eh,i mmm ,i being trying to get West to join the ole party for a long time now.I even put an ole comment on his eh country wouldnt be in the state its in if West was the boss and id still have an ole job too.
Lots done and f'all left to do,
Bertie.
Chat can be fun if single blokes didnt hop on you the minute you get in and start whispering at you:taz: maybe if people realise that not everytime your in chat your there to get a leg over (yes rare for me but still) it might get back to how it was. and for gods sake get rid of the clicks:fuckinghell:
Quote by user=avalon............mr and mrs nibbles..reckon hear hear,,,,,hdc are real salt of the earth people,,,like so many others on site,,,but people are being put off by some of the carry on lately,,,,lets bring it back to the way it was
cant agree more with your post jen...you are absolutely correct in what you say. politics , bitching and clans are not what one would expect on a swinging site...all i have to say is...thank god for genuine folks like yourself and james. avalon.
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