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p.s. westside.....u should be a politican!!!i love your posts!!!
lovebird
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Well Lovebird,
I eh,i mmm ,i being trying to get West to join the ole party for a long time now.I even put an ole comment on his eh country wouldnt be in the state its in if West was the boss and id still have an ole job too.
Lots done and f'all left to do,
Bertie.
bertie you have too much time on your hands...u shud get yourself a new job!! isnt your daughter looking for help?? not the ahem *author* the mammy...she needs help wit the twins...you could be her new nanny!!at least this way any tribunals that occurs will take place on your time and money!!!..also i hear westlife is lookin for a new public speaker to represent the band,,,,,do u no any???...pmsl.........
lovebird
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Your either a late retirer or an early ,i would never have the cheek to go through someones bedroom.
Just clean out their fridge instead,
Westside.
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west,,im a bit of both really,,mainly go 2 bed late,,,im on hols!!!!
also ur last,,,shouldnt that be in another thread???
or else im reallyyyy tired!!
lovebird
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ooooooooopppppps a it should be in another threadLOL
So should i,
Westside.
I'm a househusband...Do I qualify?????
I have a hot,sexy,gorgeous wife,,and a few kids,,,,If that don't scare you off..................hehehehee
The only catch is the kids,,,The wife is bi,,so get's the best of both worlds..How bad is that? Although,,she don't play with guys....
westside glad to see u took over another thread and ur posts had nothing to do with the thread
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westside glad to see u took over another thread and ur posts had nothing to do with the thread

Took over a thread?Horny i might as well because look at the responses?I mean common seriously if i hadnt said anything check out how many responses you got.
You see this is whats wrong here wont give their opinions on will cry and moan and say this and that but nothing can be seen.
Another post,
Westside.
Quote by user=lovebird
westside glad to see u took over another thread and ur posts had nothing to do with the thread

Took over a thread?Horny i might as well because look at the responses?I mean common seriously if i hadnt said anything check out how many responses you got.
You see this is whats wrong here wont give their opinions on will cry and moan and say this and that but nothing can be seen.
Another post,
Westside.
west.....do u really exist???
lovebird
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Like the bonus number in the lotto darling,
Westside.
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ahhhhh i see west,,ur there but unatainable...
lovbird
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Ah no im attainable alright but not around all the time.
Eps on Weds,
Westside.
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westside glad to see u took over another thread and ur posts had nothing to do with the thread

Took over a thread?Horny i might as well because look at the responses?I mean common seriously if i hadnt said anything check out how many responses you got.
You see this is whats wrong here wont give their opinions on will cry and moan and say this and that but nothing can be seen.
Another post,
Westside.
We'd rather you didn't post and have no responses at all, if all ur gonna do is go completely off the topic. If you feel like posting something completely off the threads topic, then here's a clever new invention on the site, create a new thread of your own.
Wonders why he has to sign of like this all the time,
MrHDC.
Quote by user=mrhornydubcpl4
westside glad to see u took over another thread and ur posts had nothing to do with the thread

Took over a thread?Horny i might as well because look at the responses?I mean common seriously if i hadnt said anything check out how many responses you got.
You see this is whats wrong here wont give their opinions on will cry and moan and say this and that but nothing can be seen.
Another post,
Westside.
We'd rather you didn't post and have no responses at all, if all ur gonna do is go completely off the topic. If you feel like posting something completely off the threads topic, then here's a clever new invention on the site, create a new thread of your own.
Wonders why he has to sign of like this all the time,
MrHDC.
Hiya MrHorny,
Will do and by the way there is another clever invention call a Check Spell.
Wonders why he cant spell off,
MR Westside.
Ive seen this before on other forums where the long term pro takes a step back from the flock and slips into the shadows to sit on their grievances. Theres a technical term for it too...its called being a forum whore. Fair play. As far as I can see though this is the only thread with any legs on it! So curb your enthusium mate. Im sure other people who do look at these forums from time to time would like to make some comments. Like me silly Its interesting how people feel this place has deteriorated. It just shows what they actually value... the community spirit, the touching friendships etc etc or blah blah as some would put it. I respect that but I see things differently. I put more of a premium on actually the private relationships you build up with people which inevitably lead to real life meets and something with a bit more substance. Everybody knows in real life people who spread themselves thinly and everybody knows they always turn out to be dickheads so why is it a surprise that it happens here. This place has way more thin spreaders than real life... even to enter into the bitching and taking a territorial space is actually admitting youve been seduced by this yourself. What missing is all this, and doesn’t get mentioned I think ,is this site is great for what it does... it hooks people up!! Ive found ive gravitated to the right people naturally and its not too difficult to get there. Anybody can see just glancing at this site is making a lot of good real life communications ... what more can you ask for! Maybe if people did retreat a bit into those experiences theyve had they wouldn’t do it down so much.
Not everyone will see eye to eye just as not everyone will attract each human at all to do with the site or the running of it and its an issue that will always be around from time to is why there are mods has nothing to do with some sort of innovative creation arising from somewhere,its the fact that human beings are all different and their needs,looking at things differently etc. To be honest ,its boring shit just like the start of your all about fun and hey i find it very amusing that ppl come here to bitch about bitching. I will let you to it because to be quite frank i can see the prob here. Like selling "Alive" mag outside a brothel, Westside. PS if someone is on chat all the time does that make them a chat whore?BS.
My initial paragraph was just a simple observation. Hijacking threads in a forum where you are the only hijacker with more posts than EVERYBODY else put together is the definition of a forum whore. Its not a bad thing. Why not just let them have their thread??
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My initial paragraph was just a simple observation. Hijacking threads in a forum where you are the only hijacker with more posts than EVERYBODY else put together is the definition of a forum whore. Its not a bad thing.
Why not just let them have their thread??

Listen Alex ,id be the first person to call myself a forum whore so i know where your coming be honest, the thread was pretty much hijacked without me and there werent anymore responses and i just flowed with the flow so to ppl wouldnt let it bother it does bother hornydub so ill stay out of it.
Me more posts than everybody else?Combined or singular :-)
Take it easy,
Westside.
The entire of page one was valid in regards to hornydubs original post . but page 2 just completely went of course .. now a lot on page 2 is funny , however I can see hornydubs point .. it was a serious thread regarding something that a lot of people have mentioned lately and id have to agree with james when he said he would rather people not post if it was off the topic .. I dont agree west when you said that it was more or less hijacked anyway ,and if it was dried up .. well so be it .. now im not having a go as I have been quilty myself on previous occasions of going of thread topics but I feel in this case it shouldnt have happened .. this was a serious thread and as people know jen especially doesnt post here that often so she obviously felt strongly about doing so
People need to learn to read first ,then follow logic and then point fingers in the right direction. This is the first off topic post on here , Hey Deep, You never mailed me Does that mean you dont like me Now wheres is Westside on this???Also Horny stated thank you for all your comments and lets get back to chat or something alone that line meaning it was more or less at an end "lets get back to chat".this is like me calling to a friends house saying good bye,leaving ,closing the door and then ringing the bell and saying hows the form ,long time no see. People im used to the least for gods sake come from a different angle so you dont look silly. Im constipated Westside.
Im not pointing fingers west .. I was giving my opinion like you do so often .. end of story .
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Im not pointing fingers west .. I was giving my opinion like you do so often .. end of story .

Your wrong,so is Mr with a fraction of a brain can see that it was Slightly who put the thread off topic,the thread was pretty much over according to Hornydub and low and behold as before Mr Horny comes along now,now West and wasted his time........again.
Learn to read ppl,
Westside.
Well at least people are starting to use the forum more now, it was pretty dead 6 months back and one thing I do know that is when people start posting there will be those that drop in the off topic response, also with some threads people lose interest and they die. Some threads change topics or branch off, thats what a forum is and so long as the dialogue is going and it don't get insulting then its probably not a bad thing.
Although having said all of that there are times when its not ok for example when things get personla, the forums are a place to exchange views, not bitch at each other, there isn't actually a place on the site to do this.
As this thread takes another turn, I thought I'd pick up on this bit;
Quote by user=westside
Also its up to the admin team to market the site well,links on other sites sex industry(yes swinging is the sex industry too) is something where word of mouth is not like your at your local hairdressers and saying "hey check out swing4ireland".Its important that those that leave are replaced as not all that leave will stay away because the curiousity will built up and we'll have a positive should do statistics checks on numbers and go from there,time and cost permitable that is.

Its a good point and something that we work on when we can, the thing is with links is that in the long term they should be natural if possible, hopefully other sites in the right area will link back here if they think that its useful to their members and some people that use this site may add a link from the places they control if its allowed and appropriate.
A lot of the "new" use of the forums has to be mostly down to Westside.. When this site was struggling a few years back,,He was one of the very few that kept the chat,and forums going. And,,He still is! His posts make people laugh,has made some cry,made some angry,And nearly started WW3.. But,,like him or not,be jaesus does he know how to get things going,,whether it be good,or bad!! Live long Westside,,and keep us all on edge for another few years,,Friend.. For Westside..:clap: worship Liam and Carol..
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A lot of the "new" use of the forums has to be mostly down to Westside..
When this site was struggling a few years back,,He was one of the very few that kept the chat,and forums going. And,,He still is!
His posts make people laugh,has made some cry,made some angry,And nearly started WW3..
But,,like him or not,be jaesus does he know how to get things going,,whether it be good,or bad!!
Live long Westside,,and keep us all on edge for another few years,,Friend..
For Westside..:clap: worship
Liam and Carol..

Ah with a tear in my eye and a hole in my heart i sincerely and respectfully say thank you and im deeply touched.
In reflective mode,
Westside.
we posted a serious thing that is getting up peoples noses, the thread wasn't over... but westside you always feel you have to be heard and think your points are always right.. alittle while ago you said you were leaving the forums... u should learn to read what you have wrote.. as in practice what you preach...
Quote by user=hornydubcpl4
we posted a serious thing that is getting up peoples noses, the thread wasn't over... but westside you always feel you have to be heard and think your points are always right.. alittle while ago you said you were leaving the forums... u should learn to read what you have wrote.. as in practice what you preach...

Yawn,
Westside.
ah come on westside give it up will ya.. yawn is how i felt about you always saying you were going... and yawn was how i felt about ur posts which u thought were quite important to u ... so at least show sum respect for us other ppl in the forums i ve always had respect for u...
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ah come on westside give it up will ya.. yawn is how i felt about you always saying you were going... and yawn was how i felt about ur posts which u thought were quite important to u ... so at least show sum respect for us other ppl in the forums i ve always had respect for u...

No i yawn because i expect nothing more than an attack of some always show respect for me :-) Nope.
Enjoy your peace,
Westside.
hehe west we don't attack ppl you know that to, i've no reason to attack u unless you were abusive... i do understand u are very opinionated .. all i m asking is that sometimes try keep to the topic in hand as i started this thread cos i do feel sorry for new ppl coming into chat and trying to get a word in and feeling intimidated by all the clicks... i do always show respect for u by the way
could admin lock this thread as i m not here to have a slanging match with another member on the site and i certainly dont want to bore other members
hdc4 hun, we're with ye hun, never heard u be anything but respectful, unlike guess who. It's bin said b4 but it bears repeating, the man needs professional help...that's not bein disrespectful, it's bein honest.