yes i came across this site a little while and i have to say what is goin on here i see people looking for soething xtra yes all walks of life and i can understand all that like myself i have a high sex drive and wish i did'nt nothing worse than having more needs than your partner but it was'nt like that before the that's not my problem it's the women on this they look but dont touch so why be on it please dont be looking for brads they so often i conclude i think we all live in a fantasy land that is'nt be careful out there and have as much sex as you it wont last the attached/married.
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Quote by user=burningarrow
that'not what i mean that everyone should fuck everyone i just wonder are people like myself just looking for a honest but good sexual meet not a dirty ride i know that there a women in relationship that would like more sex
Well if you look down this forum, you'll see it littered with 'I can't get any action' 'Girls don't answer me' blah blah. It's not going to happen for every guy here - there's a huge ratio difference with much more single guys on than single girls. Plus not all the couples and girls are looking for a single guy - most of the swinging couples are looking for a girl, not a guy! So that brings your odds as a single guy down even further. That doesn't mean the site isn't real or that there aren't 'real' and 'genuine' girls on here but give us a break, we can't answer everyone! I was missing off here for two days this week and when I came back online, I had over 15 messages. I try to answer everyone but after a while of trying to say I'm not interested in as nice a way, I get bored and stop replying. That's probably how it is for a lot of girls on here.
Quote by user=silvercat
PS I didn't mean to sound bitchy but there's just so many guys complaining about the site being fake, it annoys me as as genuine female lol
Yep.
It is the guys who most of the complaining (from my reading of the forums).
Do guys take things too seriously?
Are they generally more insecure?
Do the think that they are God, but then realise the reality?
Of couse there are 'fakes'out there, or scammers (the worse ones) preying.
But how often is that being used as the reason for a moan about someone who might be genuine?
Just like a girl "must be a lesbian" if she refuses a "god-like" (sic) guys approaches.......not.
:yinyang:
jo
There are some great people on this site and some have which we have met and are great friends with in the real world, but as a couple we are and have been looking for a single girl, but that doesn't seem to stop the men out there from mailing us even though it is very clearly stated on our profile no guys. You get fakes and scammers on every site though so you just gotta take the good with the bad. People should read profiles though before sending messages.
xxxx
Quote by user=jomor999
PS I didn't mean to sound bitchy but there's just so many guys complaining about the site being fake, it annoys me as as genuine female lol
Yep.
It is the guys who most of the complaining (from my reading of the forums).
Do guys take things too seriously?
Are they generally more insecure?
Do the think that they are God, but then realise the reality?
Of couse there are 'fakes'out there, or scammers (the worse ones) preying.
But how often is that being used as the reason for a moan about someone who might be genuine?
Just like a girl "must be a lesbian" if she refuses a "god-like" (sic) guys approaches.......not.
:yinyang:
jo
Women like conversation and general rest them ,how they keep it up beats me but there you is how women click with a guy and its mental attraction % of the a woman your pic and she may say "lovely" but youll be forgotten about five mins later if you just say nothing.
Ask most guys what they like about a woman and i promise youll get physical answers most women what they like about a man and ill promise youll get mentality answers back.
Its like this "do you come here often" type of conversation you see in clubs and guy might as well go and talk to a chances are the same.
This along with the fact that most guys are too pushy is the main reason why they get nowhere.
I think if a guy is himself (dont change for anyone even women) and just enjoys the chat and has a laugh (dont try to be a comedian unless he is one) then if something will happen it will happen.
Another thing i see alot is guys not being themselves when it comes to the big deal with being yourself?What i mean is guys are all nice and pleasing just for the sake of not saying be nasty but dont just be nice in a sort of made up way.A guy should be confident with who he is and the way he happy with being a stubborn obnoxious geit and the beauty is i aint changing.
Ah well,
Westside.
And that's what makes you interesting Westside, you're opinionated but you get your point across.
I agree 100% with what you said. As a female on this site there is a small percentage of the guys who message me who I talk to - I don't know why. And an even smaller percentage of them that I actually end up with. God, if I was to meet everyone who messages me,I'd be doing the bold thing every night! There are some guys who you don't get anything from at all, even after arranging to meet them. I have been left high and dry a couple of times by guys here.
And yes, a lot of guys here come on way too strong in their messages 'hi, like the tatt, lets fuck'. Well wow, let me get my pants off for ya now!!! It's like Westside said, girls like to chat and even in an open situation like Swing, we still like to feel some connection to a potential meet. We know its not dating, we know it's not a relationship in the conventional sense.
Now if only i could come up with some way of making women chat about only the things i want them to talk i can see it now,sand,seas,secluded beaches, palm trees, millions and millions of euro in my back i knew i was meant for something must put my plan of earning that fortune to work,
Later,
Westside 
Generally, I'm agreeing with Westside (and many others) on this one.
Being oneself.....
that really is the key.
Not just here, on the site, but in life.
It is true that one cannot FULLY be oneself here (a certain amount of secrecy has to exist eg my user name is not my full real name).
Maybe too many blokes try to be "blokes" (whatever "blokes" are supposed to do). In being so, it causes conflict with who one is deep inside.
And, Silvercat, I do like the tatts by the way....but that is as one person to another, not a guy to a girl.
If we were to do a poll on what blokes thinkthat ladies like to talk about, would we think that the list might be:
football; my fast car; my bank balance; my huge cock; my 'kicking fuck out of someone'; my not doing or talking about anything girlie in case she (or other blokes)thinks I'm gay?
Yeah, of course that might float some girls boat....but not all.
OR....maybe that is my big failing: I don't like football, I've no money; I chat about make-up; and I've a mini-cock.
jo
Being oneself.....
that really is the key.
Not just here, on the site, but in life.
It is true that one cannot FULLY be oneself here (a certain amount of secrecy has to exist eg my user name is not my full real name).
Maybe too many blokes try to be "blokes" (whatever "blokes" are supposed to do). In being so, it causes conflict with who one is deep inside.
And, Silvercat, I do like the tatts by the way....but that is as one person to another, not a guy to a girl.
If we were to do a poll on what blokes thinkthat ladies like to talk about, would we think that the list might be:
football; my fast car; my bank balance; my huge cock; my 'kicking fuck out of someone'; my not doing or talking about anything girlie in case she (or other blokes)thinks I'm gay?
Yeah, of course that might float some girls boat....but not all.
OR....maybe that is my big failing: I don't like football, I've no money; I chat about make-up; and I've a mini-cock.
jo
Sex God
Another thing that the conversations do , is help you try and find out if the person ur talking is not a mad axe murderer or somthing like that:taz:. Been a single female (by its very nature) if u are going to meet, guys or cpls, you are putting ur self in a vunerble posistion , and , the conversations helps u in trying to figure out if the person u are meeting is a sane safe person to meet on ur own
hmm not sure if i put that correctly , but im sure u get the gist of what i mean :smile2:
hi
would just like to add to that as i was just reading there.. i would agree with silver west and shy.. it is impossible to meet all peeps.. some are like jump in your car and come meet me know!!
lol we live in the real world here (well some lol) just wanted to get my bit in there ...
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take care
ted
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yes i'm with y'all on your points it's not me i'm saying it for but i look at all the threads alot of people look in but dont join in. i was looking for a light at the end of the tunnel maybe i dont need it maybe i do i'm not desperate but i need a laugh or something. i'm not on this site every day so i would not know what to expect i am here 6 months checking but i suppose i thought that a woman that felt like me was here and maybe she is who knows it dont really matter i'm a typical male not knowing what's go for me
Hi guys,
Well being honest I (Jane) spend more time on the site than Dick. I find that most and I mean most single guys say 'Hi' and guess what the next question is ???? 'Is this male or female', not is this dick or jane.... no its are you male or female. It makes one feel like your participating in a questionaire in the Docs office.
Then when you say Jane all you get is 'Do you want to play' ?? don't mean to sound cynical but being honest after guys saying this 100 times or more it is quiet annoying.
Some of the guys on here are nice and genuine and I have a good laugh with as they love a chat just as much as the next person but the others guys need to grow up and realise woman need their mind to be stimulated first and take it from there.
Have ye not looked at the forums and found this to be true ???
D&J
nicely put Jane ,,,,,,,, it seems that most women have the same idea ,, and who can blame them ,, it is about time that people realised that women don't drop their knickers just like that, because they are on this site , so lads make life easy for everyone and everyone might get what they are looking for !!!!!!!
Warming the Bed
I'm sorry but I have a real problem with allowing women to talk. Next they'll want to get the same money as us or worse the vote!! Is there anyone on this site that considers us as individuals instead of 'balls' or 'has no balls'? Pets and I are a couple but have totally different ideas on everything! But we both agree that the single guys on this site must need their head examined if they think that the best chat up line is 'hi' followed by a pic of their cock. Or how about the chat up line - 'I have 2 newfoundland dogs'??
I GUESS I MISUNDERSTOOD ALL MY LIFE IS ABOUT I THOUGHT I WOULD FIND SOMETHING HERE.I WOULD CERTAINLY NOT JUST MEET OR GO TO ANYONE WITHOUT EMAIL OR TXT FOR A GOOD LENGHT OF TIME AS FOR MY AXE IT'S OUT OF COMISSION FOR A WHILE NOW AS I SAID BEFORE I'M NOT DESPERATE ONLY ABIT HORNY JUST LIKE EVERYONE ONE THIS EVERYONE ON THIS SITE GEORGOUS OR ARE THEY AVERAGE JOES LIKE MYSELF BECAUSE I WONDER IF THEIR BEAUTIFUL CAN THEY JUST GO TO THE LOCAL CLUB UNLIKE FOR KNICKERS BEING NICE THOUGHT BUT I LIKE TO CHAT ASWELL.
