is intelligence sexier than cheesy chat up lines

26 Oct 2010

:clap:well i want to ask is it better to make a effort on chatting and showing intelligence than cheesy chat up lines and smut... this was a peer pressure thread caused by the wonderful Eden

26 Oct 2010

I would definitely say its a lot better to show some degree of intelligence and wit instead of smut and cheesy chat up lines...well for me anyway xxxxxxxxxxxxdrags

26 Oct 2010

Ditto I completly agree! Wit, humour and intelligence go a long way with me all though in saying that a bit of smutty humour can be a bit of craic too but only when I've gotten to know a person better think it's all to do with timing for example if you were in a bar you wouldn't walk up to a girl and say can I lift you o to the bar spread your legs and get down to buisness ( :grin: ) you would have a chat with her, get to know her better etc and maybe suttely throw the smut in. At the end of the day this is a swinging website but that doesn't mean you shouldn't respect people. A girl likes to be warmed up a little first !

26 Oct 2010

I'll put the hot water bottle on then kitten ;-)

26 Oct 2010

Lol behave yourself !!!! ...... Excellant use of anone smutty line though. Gold star for you ;)

26 Oct 2010

im sure you able to hold your own kitten:small-print: you can write a few of them yourself xxxx

26 Oct 2010

As kitten said, us women need some warming up first (not scalding with hot water!!), so when a guy takes the time to chat a bit first, show some brains above the belt and a bit a humour...well then he can get smutty later :moon: or maybe I can rotflmao

26 Oct 2010

A Ladies biggest sex organ is between her ears ... If you can get in there, she might let you in other places.. So i always try and get in there first... Sean xx

26 Oct 2010

Yeah have to say good sharp wit is a lot sexier than a girl talking dirty. Leave the dirty talk for the bedroom, chatrooms are for having the craic and getting to know people. If someone said "i wana f#ck your brains out" straight away to me I know my guard would go straight up and I'd be very apprehensive about meeting said person. Im sure most girls would be a little perturbed if the same was to happen to them. Sharp wit and a little flirting is what the chatrooms are for, well I believe so anyway

26 Oct 2010

I always use humour and intelligence when i chat up a lady always works for me i think ladys like to be sopken to with a bit of common sence and respect. I don't use the one liners or the chessy chat up lines.