I'll show you mine if you show me yours.....

10 Jan 2012

What do people think about sharing private albums??? I have had the experience of sharing my private album with people on the agreement that I get an invite to theirs. To me that seems only fair. However on a number of occasions the person who I have sent the album to has never reciprocated which I find very rude and a little ignorant. Even if you recognize me in the pictures I think it only fair that you come clean and tell me as opposed to disappearing into the mist as I feel that we are all big boys and girls on here. I wonder if their are many people on here just trying to find out who is on here as opposed to being actively involved. Rant over, opinions on this matter appreciated, particularly from a ladies point of view. Am I being a little harsh or foolish? Happy swinging Johns7g biggrin

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10 Jan 2012

I think if the agreement was there that ye both swap pics,then the other party involved should of invited you to veiw there was no mutual attraction from the other person when they veiwed your pics,we all have different tastes in what floats our boats.I can see where it might annoy you but the only thing you can do is to be more selective on whom you choose to veiw your i wouldnt worry about any one recognising you as there using the site as well and as adults im sure we could expect them to keep your pics or anyones pictures private....so inhale and xhale wink

feel better lol

10 Jan 2012

Fair point but a thanks but no thanks message would also suffice. Just a bit of manners

10 Jan 2012

Sometimes I get invites from guys on here to their private pics without even having spoken to them. I'm not going to send then mine on that basis. Also, when guys just want to use ure pics for a wank.. Like Eeww there's plenty on porn channels out there.. I dont even know u! I'm selective about whom I send my pics too, ya never know where they will end up! My tuppence worth, Ginger

10 Jan 2012

Quote by johns7g
Fair point but a thanks but no thanks message would also suffice. Just a bit of manners

very true, it never ceases to amaze me how poor some people manners can be, not responding to emails when someone takes the time to write you (bar those stupid wink things). We will always extend the basic courtesy of a thanks but no thanks and the same would be appreciated.....
not to make it all about us mind smile

10 Jan 2012

Personally I totally agree with you about the whole responding to at least let you know if they aren't interested. There are too many that don't and quite frankly it's very rude in my opinion. People talk about reading ones profile and then write a mail based on that but to be honest it makes no difference to many of them, they just won't respond and that's cos they have no manners. End of.

11 Jan 2012

I never do the il show u yours if you show me mine thing. If someone wants to send me an invite that is there choice and i dont feel any obligation to send mine back. personally I would take a no reply as a not interested

11 Jan 2012

i think what the original poster is saying here is that if AGREED "i send you mine if you send me your" ,, not wheather or not he didnt get one when he just sent a mail, im asuming that he is talking about being in whisper with somone an they geting on well then he send his pics with the agreement of geting theirs in return, if im reading this correctly then yes i agree he should been shown the courtasy of a return, i have been in many whispers with a guy an having a laugh an geting on well ,an agreed to a return photo exchange , having looked at the pics in many cases i have not felt a physical attraction , but will still always return my pics, if im not reading this correctly then im talking a load of bollocks an ya wont get near me pics (joke):giggle: I have to say when i opened the thread i was a little more excited than when i read its contents for obvious lucy slut reasons,, "you show me yours an i will show you mine" hump

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11 Jan 2012

Pmsl laughing Lucy x x x In relation to the original post I wouldnt dwell on it my friend if these people do not keep to the agreement the likelihood was a meet was never on the cards from the start and consider yourself lucky to only have the return if pictures not being sent rather than meets been arranged only to find out at a later stage to be cancelled cos they could not be honest from the start. We keep face pics as our private pics because there is nothing like seeing what people look like. whilst bodies are all very sexy it's only when you get to see people you will know if there is an attraction. Don't get me wrong I am far from saying looks are all important here but we like people to know if we are what they are looking for and give the the earliest chance to back out of the initial get to know each other stage before we get our hands on them. So on and up wards my man have fun and be SAFE.

11 Jan 2012

Lucy, you read it correctly my dear. It was agreed beforehand to swap pics. Oh well guess they won't get an invite to my welcome home party...I can't wait..

11 Jan 2012

neither can i,as we didnt have a going away party....mmmmm

11 Jan 2012

Top of the list Bernie..... smile