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how do you break the ice
Sex God
Good Post OP.
I like to try and have a decent rapport built up with someone before I meet, that way you can fall in on a previous conversation and have a laugh and a joke to ease the tension. It can be daunting despite having spoken by phone or on-line for a bit, but just relaxing and not thinking about it too much helps.
Well we found that chatting on line was our first contact,after a while we were invited to a social outing,where there were a good few people,who we had chatted to on line,and arranged to meet them in bar of hotel where we hit it off straight away,
for us it was the social outings where we made friends,and have taken it from there.
Having met a few people, I can honestly say that humour is the best way to break the ackward ice. From talking to them online you should already have an idea of what they find funny. I got a great kick out of 'do you come here often?' once. Not very orginal I know, but it mellowed the mood somewhat.
Great icebreaker
Sexlightened
I find a mallet usually helps break the ice or if I am feeling particularly violent a chain saw.
Sexlightened
Snog ???? anyone would think this was a swingers site.
If we are talking snogging nookie etc I would go with *removed* always works for me. No sillies not for her for me. I can never remember if i did or if i didnt.
Quote by gitzer
Git dont want the neighbours trying to join in lol
and before you say it..you would need a strong stomach to even think of going there with our neighbours lol
ah now raven, dont judge a book by the cover, you never now they might be on another swing site..
Very true, there's an amount of swing sites there days
Warming the Bed
I had a meet with a lady, and it was out first meet, we met in my hotel at 11pm ish and not one word was spoken until about 1:30am, and I mean not as much as one word.....so do you really need to break the ice 
it can be fine as it is
it can be fine as it is 
Sex God
Quote by sparkie
I had a meet with a lady, and it was out first meet, we met in my hotel at 11pm ish and not one word was spoken until about 1:30am, and I mean not as much as one word.....so do you really need to break the ice
Sparkle u either had her gagged or u were doing her wrong!!!!
Sex God
I actually meant to say "doing something wrong" 
