Hey Everyone,
So as some of you know in exactly 47hrs I will be undertaking the first leg of my journey to Perth, Australia. Where, I intend to live for the foreseeable future provided all goes according to plan!?
I felt that it would be wrong of me, if I didn't let everyone know how grateful I am for the experiences I have had in the past 7 months here on S4i, from close friends that I have made to anyone that I have met with/played with and even people I have only chatted to once, because it has all added to this whirlwind experience!
I truly believe that my time on here will be highly beneficial to me in Australia and I don't just mean this in a sexual way. When I first joined this site my life was at a bit of a loose end, struggling to figure out where exactly I fit in, in the larger scheme of things. But I feel like I am now back to my usual self, a young man who thankfully has got back to being the confident outgoing person he was before I hit the above mentioned lull in my life. A family member said to me recently "I have never seen you so relaxed, but still you so focussed, you are not just being a bum", lol if only they knew ey!!!
This new-found confidence and open mindedness I owe to the close friends I have made on here ,but I am not referring to any of these cliques that I have noticed people are mentioning, I just mean genuine friends, that even if I met them outside of the site or a sexual setting, I would be proud to call them a friend!
I hope that any newbie on the site(even though I kinda still am one), who may be having second thoughts about whether or not this craic is for you, I urge you to at least give it a fair chance, because if you have half the fun/laughs I have had in the past 7 months, I truly think you quality of life will improve 10 fold, because you will be happy.
Get involved in the chat rooms and the forums and have the banter. But for me the most important character trait that I think you should practice, is to be respectful of your fellow swinger!! As my profile says, it is not a dial-a-ride site, if you want that I'm sure there are a few street corners around the country you can sort yourselves out!?
You only get out of something what you put in! Yes everyone makes mistakes, but as long as nobody gets hurt and you learn from them, and combine this with being respectful then people will show you respect in return!
Im sorry if it seems like I am preaching but I feel like all the great advice from so many amazing people that I have received, I should try and pass some of it on, because as I leave I hope that somebody else can enjoy this wonderful outlet for fun, with all the awesome, sexy and just plain bang on people, that I have met and chatted to!!
I'm sorry for waffling but I just wish I could show my gratitude to everyone individually and leaving S4i is going to be tough!!
If anyone who knows me or wants to get to know ends up in Perth, Australia, be sure to look me up!
Once again thanks to everyone who knows me!! When I started writing this it was 48hrs till my flight...
Happy Swinging to one and all! :swingingchair:
Dingo123