There are quite a few forums on this site.
1-are you an regular reader?
2-a poster
3-just don't bother with them.
I enjoy the forums, I enjoy the fun threads, the serious threads & the varied opinions & view points expressed across all the forums, whether it from the "lets meet" to the "holiday" forums.
Sort of obvious that I am a regular poster, but recently I don't enjoy the direction the threads are going in, however hopefuly people will cop on and get back to what you describe above Alan-Ball fun and informative threads for everyone..
I'm a regular reader throughout all the forums even though I don't always comment as it's not always I would have something to add. :angel:
Omg Knock.. me turn serious posts to funny .. never :giggle:
But I seriously would love to be able to do so at the moment.
love reading and posting on the forums.....and always try to keep a positive outlook xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I would be same as amber with the forums, but agree with virgo, hence a warning has gone up, ppl should read it, besause any more nonsense or we get any more complaints, then posts, thread, and possible members will be removed, and it wont make any difference who it does, people either move on or move off!!
50/50 on the votes between posters & readers...not quite a red-sea poll ... need a few more replies...to really guage the popularity....and remember to vote.
I admire your honesty virgo, and I know others have been in situations, and done the exact same as yourself, but as you say, ppl in general dont want to see personality clashes (for want of a better phrase) on the board to such an extent. Its time for everyone to walk away from all this, live and learn from it, and get back to enjoying the forums and the site again, we all have enough hardship in our real lives, without making it a chore to come here...be well..xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
As a user of the forums I too hate to see the way that nastiness has crept into some of them recently. I admit to using the forum to react to a personal situation but I felt it was the only way open to me to clear my name.
While I accept and respect that the forums are for fun and enjoyments of others and no one wants to be reading the type of crap that was directed at individuals recently, there has to be an outlet for members to clear there name when the gossip/rumour mongers /liars try to ruin it.
Sometimes its done in such an underhand way that its not as simple as complaining the perpetrator/s to admin.
This is my final post on the topic, onward and upward. Live and let live.
Cute thanks for your honesty also, onwards and upwards, its the only way forward, everyone comes out a little wiser when we live and learn...be well..xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
:thumbup: Cutie and Virgo.
I love the forums and do tend to put up an odd post or 2.:haha:
em ok , just wondering, one person voted , "just dont bother with em", so my question is, if they dont bother with em how did they see the vote/question ;)
They got a friend to vote for them ???
love the banter and fun of the forums
Remember vote early early & often
quote user=cutie]love the banter and fun of the forums