First time anal for a woman advice please

15 Jul 2008

Need advice on this plan to have this,for the first time in next couple of forty and never had it before,been told it can be very painful and also best,you get it again next partner as agreed to let a stranger do it,any advice from another woman on what to expect,best position told me to have sex before,other said sure yet who will do it,but ones we have in mind says, my ass looks really tight in on here been in same situation help Kerry Ann

15 Jul 2008

this is a common question for girls, if you look down the thread you will see a title called up the bum and i have outlined my first time experiences with anal, but you should def google it,

15 Jul 2008

I'll be gentle hun xxo

15 Jul 2008

:doggy:

16 Jul 2008

Some advice a woman gave to me many, many years ago and which has always worked for me when it comes to this whole area....... "Always follow the 3 P's: Preparation, Patience and Plenty of Lube!" That little pearl of wisdom have never let me down yet! lol

16 Jul 2008

Patience and plenty of lube are definitely essential. Also, don't get too hung up thinking about it or it'll be terrible!!!. Relax and go with the flow. As for going again the next day, i hadn't heard that one!

16 Jul 2008

Plenty of lube and slow entry is essential, whats its in uts fine,and if at any time you feel uncomfortable ask him to stop and try again. It can be extremely enjoyable for both parties when mastered.

16 Jul 2008

Thanks for advice someone tell me,will it normally go in first time,friend says it took her hubby three or four attempts is that thinks best I have it in my pussy directly before,then the anal after I have been laid!!!!!.Very nervous but want to do it,suppose alot will depend on who is doing not sure if I want my partner to watch me getting this,what do other women think would better my partner stays in another room till we it take an hour or so to do it,or longer take care Kerry Ann

17 Jul 2008

Well In my experience plenty of foreplay is essential to warm you up. and if ya think ya have enough lube, ya need about twice that again. Be gentle, patient and like one poster mentioned I Have found its better after vaginal sex as she will be more relaxed.

18 Jul 2008

Let me know when, u know were, and ill bring plenty of lube, we shall take our time and make it a good experience plenty of licking fingering and then my cock do you want me to cum inside your ass Kerry bet u would like a photo of that coming out of your bum hole xo

18 Jul 2008

Hi there, Have left ye some private mail that we hope ye find useful biggrin

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18 Jul 2008

Not some old slut just wanting it,I not anyone else will decide who I do it with.....What pics I dont have any at present,seems more men looking a quick shag,than anything else on is not that at all,if you want that pay for it elsewhere........Kerry Ann

19 Jul 2008

Just relax, and use tons of lube, after the guys cock enters, ask him to enter slowly and move backwards. First time is painful, after that wow!!!!!!!!

15 Nov 2008

Quote by user=dora
im asked this a lot by newbies.. my suggestion is always to do it yourself for a few months before you allow a coc to enter.. use small dildo or butt plug with lots of lube..as you get used to it over time you will get to a point where a coc wil be smal compared to what you use and you wil enjoy your 1st time experience no end

First time I used a butt plug Dora, I yelped like a feckin banshee, perhaps your suggestion for a small dildo for first time? the bullet is great for anal, Ane Summers does a great range.

15 Nov 2008

getting ur ass fingered during oral can help for when u go to do anal. or dp can be good for anal to as the ass does be relaxed -- like a vibe in pu**y and c**k in ass) cos u arent concentrating on ur ass and ur p***y is getting loads of attention it helps you relax if that makes sense. relaxation is the main thing i feel helps me ... might be diff for others thou. oh ye and plenty of lube does help as stops friction... i do anal doggy style as i find it easier to relax the ass muscles hope all this helps and good luck with it cos if it works for ya u ll be in heaven... xxxxxxxxxx