I have been pondering as to the opinions of other folks here on the much seen explicit comments often left on profiles .. how do you feel about them , are they a valuable insight into the mind of the person leaving them , and do they colour your opinion on a prospective meet . I personally cringe when I read them and have been known to remove them from my own profile , maybe I am a prude and I admit to sneakily checking out comments left by a person before I decide whether to meet them or not and often disregard potential meets based on the gory detailled comments left . What say you ?
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explicit validations whats your opinion
Avalon :thumbup: good discussion topic
When i am NOT in male mode and actually take the time to read the profile instead of just looking at pics, verifications, body type :eeek: :giggle: ...I have to say sometimes the comments do sway me. As far as the explicit comments i have been on the recieving and giving end 
but its more in jest than actually giving details ex: his 9in rock hard cock slipped into my p****y all night :eeek: then i would actually 
My comments are actually showing you the mindset of me at the time of writing them. If i had a great meet by god i will yell from the roof tops and pretty much write a novel on their profile...then there is the fun meet where i will leave a comment to tell the woman they are great guys and not to pass up and then there is the courtesy comment where i express they showed up :eeek: 
ops: We all know with the messers around it helps to have a comment or two just to show that they are genuine and since i meet a lot of newbies i am just helping them on their journey ;)
but its more in jest than actually giving details ex: his 9in rock hard cock slipped into my p****y all night :eeek: then i would actually
My comments are actually showing you the mindset of me at the time of writing them. If i had a great meet by god i will yell from the roof tops and pretty much write a novel on their profile...then there is the fun meet where i will leave a comment to tell the woman they are great guys and not to pass up and then there is the courtesy comment where i express they showed up :eeek: ops: We all know with the messers around it helps to have a comment or two just to show that they are genuine and since i meet a lot of newbies i am just helping them on their journey ;) Oh I'd be embarassed if I received an explicit comment id delete it. Expressing how much fun you had and a bit of a giggle is fine. I'd never leave an erotic story as a comment... I leave them in the story section.
I think comments give you an insight to the person leaving it first but then if it's left on the profile, the person it's left for.
I always read the comments left and see who also. Sometimes the comments take me on a little tour of the profiles too!
I like to leave comments on the newbies even if it's for coffee as worsh said to get them on their journey, especially if they are yummy!
Avalon ....Yet again you give us food for though
Explicit comments … Doesn't it rely depend on a persons definition off Explicit to begin with , As most here seem to have rather set views on the definition off most things in life .
I personally fine it fun to keep things light heart with the undertone off the meet in question , Cant see the harm in hinting , implying , teasing , as all give others an insight to the person been commented on , subtly is required in my book ,
Never forget the fun side as that is why we are all here …to have some fun , So expressing the fun and pleasure that one has experienced I guess is a matter off personal choice ..put for a few id suggest maybe dropping a quick mail to the person you have meet and asking if its ok to comment and if they mind if you are explicit in it they can do is say no keep it simple … No harm no foul ….
We just have to remember that not everyone is going to read what is written with the same understanding or insight as the person who wrote it as we all have every different outlooks on life , on people and on sex , Put for the majority id say there first and foremost though is …. ' Its nice to be nice ' ….. ' Great person ' …. Great meet ' ……..so in leaving a comment take into consideration how others may view the writer as well as how they my view the person being commented on....
Explicit comments … Doesn't it rely depend on a persons definition off Explicit to begin with , As most here seem to have rather set views on the definition off most things in life .
I personally fine it fun to keep things light heart with the undertone off the meet in question , Cant see the harm in hinting , implying , teasing , as all give others an insight to the person been commented on , subtly is required in my book ,
Never forget the fun side as that is why we are all here …to have some fun , So expressing the fun and pleasure that one has experienced I guess is a matter off personal choice ..put for a few id suggest maybe dropping a quick mail to the person you have meet and asking if its ok to comment and if they mind if you are explicit in it they can do is say no keep it simple … No harm no foul ….
We just have to remember that not everyone is going to read what is written with the same understanding or insight as the person who wrote it as we all have every different outlooks on life , on people and on sex , Put for the majority id say there first and foremost though is …. ' Its nice to be nice ' ….. ' Great person ' …. Great meet ' ……..so in leaving a comment take into consideration how others may view the writer as well as how they my view the person being commented on....
Sexlightened
im agreeing with this,i deleted a comment where it said i had a tight u know what,i was mortified,so down it came,dont need to know everything,it can also turn me off big time..keep it cleani say,and just be more graphic in the bedroom haaa.
Avalon yep I totally agree. Ive deleted many a comment because I felt they were just a little too personal and gave off the wrong impression. Like bernbabe anything that mentions tight/wet pussys, sucking abilities or what was done in the bedroom gets deleted!
And as I do look at others profile if I see an explicit comment left by them then it def taints my view and put them off my radar.
On another note I find it odd when someone you may have just chatted to leaves comments which suggests more was got up to?? whats that about? they also get deleted. Leave a bit to the imagination thats my motto xx
Sex God
Avalon, hmmmm got me thinking all right, so much so , that iv just checked my comments which i havent done in ages,
I have I know, in the past, removed ones that I thought sounded like hardcore I guess what I prefer,are comments that get to the point are less graphic but have a bit of humour and of course make me sound wonderful :giggle:
Though I'm still a bit iffy bout the one that says Im a lovely girl but dont let me sing 
P.s I always have a look at a person commments and verified before I agree to meets.
I have I know, in the past, removed ones that I thought sounded like hardcore I guess what I prefer,are comments that get to the point are less graphic but have a bit of humour and of course make me sound wonderful :giggle:
Though I'm still a bit iffy bout the one that says Im a lovely girl but dont let me sing
P.s I always have a look at a person commments and verified before I agree to meets. We wouldnt put an explicit comment on anyones page,it is better in our veiw to be polite and give compliments. Comments on profiles do give an insight into your potential meet but everyone has different veiws on how good a meet was and it may not match up when you do meet up. We used to put polite comments on meets we had that where bad but then thought about it and think it is misleading for others so we dont comment unless it was a successful meet.
Sexpert
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Sex God
I'd be kinda thinking along the same lines.....make you wonder how loosely they would discuss you to others as well. I think a comment only needs to verify the person is genuine and you had a laugh/naughty time with them. Besides we all play differently with different people.
A validation is a validation in my books, wheather it be tame or explicid, i love my explicid comments, they makes me giggle when i read them months later , i often sit an read them when i am bored an remember the great time we had on a particular night , i certainly wouldent judge anyone based on the type of comments they have i would be pleased to see that they had one at all,,, :small-print::boo:
Titan the amount of ppl we have met who seen our profile comments and wanted to know details of the ppl is unreal, if we had a bad meet, ie lack of performance we will be honest but that was our experiance and others may have a better one, but we are sick of ppl talking crap about ppl on here, we have never met a person that we would bad mouth no matter what happened and trying to take long time memebers character is not on.
This is a humdinger 
I once seen a guy leave a girl a comment saying she gives a great alarm call / wakeup call. I thought that sounded really horrible.
We wouldnt ever say someone has a tight whatever or we wouldnt say really explicit things or go into details. Nah I prefer that during sex
Now if someone wrote : Mrs S fucks like a pornstar or something along those lines or worse it would be deleted.
However if the same was written about me (Mr) you can damn well bet it's being kept 
I once seen a guy leave a girl a comment saying she gives a great alarm call / wakeup call. I thought that sounded really horrible.
We wouldnt ever say someone has a tight whatever or we wouldnt say really explicit things or go into details. Nah I prefer that during sex
Now if someone wrote : Mrs S fucks like a pornstar or something along those lines or worse it would be deleted.
However if the same was written about me (Mr) you can damn well bet it's being kept 