Dr Sexford's Guide to the Male Orgasm

16 Aug 2009

1 Ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing
2 Unlike women, men do not plateau. The best experience derives from a monotonic - and fairly short - climb. Either let him cum quickly first and then again - more slowly - later or concentrate on yourself first. Do not bring him almost there and then decide it's your turn - he'll never fully recover and the phrase damp squib might come into play (see 1). It follows that there is more chance of finding an honest second-hand car dealer than of obtaining the Mills and Boon fantasy of climaxing together.
3 During ejaculation his cock may become extremely sensitive. If you offer to let him cum in your mouth (as opposed to into your mouth) and he politely declines do not go off in a huff. It may be that he knows this will simply be painful and prevent a proper orgasm (see 1)
4 Orgasm will have been achieved if the body shakes violently at the hips and this transfers up the torso in a kind of solo mexican-wave, culminating in whiplash. If, on the other hand, he simply shakes his head and asks you if you "fancy a cuppa" it was just ejaculation.
5 During the first few minutes following an orgasmic ejaculation a man is in a state of total and divine relaxation. This period should really be regarded as part of the orgasm; in fact it is the only part that we actually experience. During an orgasmic ejaculation all body function is directed to involuntary movement and nothing reaches the brain till afterwards. Please let us enjoy this. We do not ask questions or hug you tightly or start stroking random bits of your body as you build up to an orgasm. The entire body can be sensitive during this period and engaging the brain to say anything at all destroys the magic of this blissful period.

17 Aug 2009

very informative , we need more subjects like this on the forums ...please continue to post pearls of wisdom sexford ... the day you think you know it all... you might as well know nought ...lol . i look forward to more insight into the male psyche xx ava

17 Aug 2009

well thank you ava; glad somebody appreciates me.
regrettably it's the wisdom of age experience

17 Aug 2009

During the first few minutes following an orgasmic ejaculation a man is in a state of total and divine relaxation. This period should really be regarded as part of the orgasm; in fact it is the only part that we actually experience. During an orgasmic ejaculation all body function is directed to involuntary movement and nothing reaches the brain till afterwards. Please let us enjoy this. We do not ask questions or hug you tightly or start stroking random bits of your body as you build up to an orgasm. The entire body can be sensitive during this period and engaging the brain to say anything at all destroys the magic of this blissful period.. Interesting info, will remember and put to good use for future encounters.

18 Aug 2009

Quote by user=lovebird
sexford,... can i ask without appearing dumb(or dumber some might say)do men know this themselves? can the distinguish between the two?
ive have to admit i assumed you couldnt have one without the other...
lovebird

good question lb. well you can have ejaculation without orgasm but not orgasm without ejaculation.
as to men knowing or not, male orgasms are rather less tangible than female ones and men are generally not good at discussing sex so i expect many men have neverr really thought about it and i'm sure some use the words orgasm and ejaculation as if they were the same thing. However i think all men will have ruined a good wank by cumming when they didn't mean to in an attempt to prolong the event. it can actually be uncomfortable as well as disappointing. all that shaking we do helps propel semen along the tubes (sexy huh ?) and without it i think the pressure can build up too high during ejaculation.
the tragedy is that neither men nor women really get enough information about sex, even now when we have info fired at us from all directions. when i was young i read a book called the hite report which was far better in my opinion than the vagina monolgues which i find shallow and sentimental. also used to read marie-clare and cosmo but there was nothing for me to read about me ! "men's" magazines meant porn and i've never looked at a "lad's" mag but i suspect they're full of stories about sport, cars and war punctuated by a few tits. i''l take the proper porn, thanks.
(sorry, seem to have gone on a bit)

18 Aug 2009

Here sexford.....have a cuppa biggrin

Very informative - rushes out to buy cosmo.