Confused

1 Jun 2010

We are members One week and are very disappointed in the response we have received. We believe that a load of people on here are on to cop a look see, we will give the site another week then we will find somewhere else Help Frustrated........

1 Jun 2010

You seem to have been mislead into believing that members on here will just meet at the drop of a hat. Sure there are a few like that, very few mind, but it takes time to build up a trust with others and make sure everyone is looking for the same things etc. Almost every member has been messed around by someone on here who gets kicks out of organizing meets and not showing up so they are very wary of who they will meet up with. Give it time and get to know people then you will start to find what your looking for. Good Luck. MrH.

1 Jun 2010

Great Post mrs H, The getting to meet thing can vary for everyone, some get first meets inside a week of joining, others can be here months, you have to be patient. People are wary of new people until they get chattimg to them and develop a little rapport, sure we arent here to make friends most of us but still people like to get a feel for the other party before they get to actually 'feel' the other Party. Good luck on the site and give it a bit of time, you'll have yer first meet in no time and you'll be flying.

1 Jun 2010

hi guys yes it can be very hard to meet if yous come into chat get to know ppl then you have better luck come to suzies chat thats my room xxxxxxxx

1 Jun 2010

At the risk of been strung up, you are right a lot are on here just to perv cams and pics, and some just to make friends and chat and have no intention of meeting but a week is not a long time in this life style. Make use of the lets meet forums and chat, thats the only way to get meets and it may take time so just hang in there.

3 Jun 2010

I would totally agree with raven on that, many members are here for many different reasons, and it takes time to suss out who is who and what their looking for, and as other posters mentioned, its about finding a connection also, a week is but a blink. My advise is dont rush head long into accepting what ppl tell you on here as gospel, suss out their intentions, that way when it does come to your first meet, it will hopefully be all the more enjoyable.