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Orgasminator
Quote by ravenfire
We have noticed the lack of comments on peoples profiles too and to be honest with the amount of messers and time wasters we are been put off meeting anyone with no comments if they have been on site for a while.
To be honest I usually follow a similar line myself with the odd exception if I'm given very good reason too.. No hard and fast rule...
Master of Sex
I dont accept or give comments for 1 simple reason, who I meet is my business and not open for public information...
However I do go to meets and greets and will go on cam when it works lol..
Orgasminator
Negative comments aren't allowed. I was let down once by a member here and tried to place what was supposed to be a helpfull comment (to warn other members) but it wasn't allowed by admin. Mind you the member could have erased it after anyway so maybe not so bad but still.... There appears to be no official way of letting people know that kind of information..
Orgasminator
when I said 'let down' I mean strung along for ages, plans made and then lines of communication cut off about 2 days before agreed meet with no explanation, that was soon after I joined and have had no similar issues with anyone since (touch wood....)
Or are you touching your wood? 
Only taking the piss pal :thumbup:I rarely will meet someone who doesn't have comments on their profile - especially if they have been on site for a while, and even more so if they tell me they've met someone from the site.
As for the negative comments thing - it could be seen as one sided that only good comments are allowed be posted - but the old saying 'if you have nothing good to say, dont't say anything at all' definitely comes into play here. The absence of comments on a regular members' page who has met others sets off alarm bells for me.
Quote by irishlass37
I dont accept or give comments for 1 simple reason, who I meet is my business and not open for public information...
However I do go to meets and greets and will go on cam when it works lol..
Sadly though Irishlass it is fine for a woman on here to have comments turned off for reasons of privacy and people will take that at face value for the most part however if a guy does the same the view will be taken that he is hiding something but that's just the way things are on here.
Just to note that i am not saying anything against anyone or complaining about anything at all (as someone is bound to read it like that, just to clarify in advance).
Master of Sex
Quote by TheStig11
I dont accept or give comments for 1 simple reason, who I meet is my business and not open for public information...
However I do go to meets and greets and will go on cam when it works lol..
Sadly though Irishlass it is fine for a woman on here to have comments turned off for reasons of privacy and people will take that at face value for the most part however if a guy does the same the view will be taken that he is hiding something but that's just the way things are on here.
Just to note that i am not saying anything against anyone or complaining about anything at all (as someone is bound to read it like that, just to clarify in advance).
I understand what you are saying Stig, however I have no problem chatting to a man/woman on here that has no verifications or pics up, especially if they have the same reasons as I do for not wanting this information made public.
However once we have chatted briefly and I get a feel for the person I will request pics sent to my email address if they have none on site, and a cam viewing in a private room if they are too shy to face cam in main chat is non negotible for me, I need to see a person in real time, to ensure they are who they are supposed to be
I myself, have been on cam in main chat lol and been whispered hey I know you from the real world, so I can understand how off putting that may be to some people or that they may be easily identified by their tatts or something about them that stands out.
But again each person on here is different - thats what makes us unique :)
Lass
