I would like to ask all that you give your opinion to this.
The rules of the chatroom are that if you want only a certain group you should lock the room as private.
Can i ask, is that fair to any new people on the site??
Many couples have indicated that they have absolutly NO interest in singles, be it male or female. This can be found in many profiles. And alot have said that as couples we should be entitled to a public room that is for those couples that are only looking for a couple. And that on many occations they have suffered abuse in the chatrooms after telling a single person that they are not interested.
This is a problem, how could folks on here get chatting to new people if everyone is hiding away in locked rooms and they dont have the password, the fact is they cant, and we all know that for all the emails you might send out, not all get replied to. But it's chatting in the rooms that you get to work out the real and the timewasters.
I know that this poll wont bring a change, but it would be nice to see the general concensous of peoples feelings.
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chatroom rules, fair to everyone???
mr-k...what r u saying yes to? i've had this conversation briefly with babychicks, he seems to think newbies, or couples, or possibly both, are deserving of different rules to everyone else.
As a couple, and still quite new to this, we have gone through exactly the same process of finding out how the site and chat operate on a social level. we managed it, so has everyone else...what makes him so special?
Thank you J_and_A for your comments. you have a right to your opinion.
but for all thread visitors, there have been 88 at present, but only six votes.
The point was a_and_j, if peeps are looking just to chat to one group they should have the right to an open room to allow for people in the group they are looking for to come in, it is bad enough that there are some rubbish made up profiles out there, look around, most (true) couples on this site do not want to be chatted up by singles, and say on there profiles, so if they are allowed to put it on there profiles that they will not reply to singles, then they should be entitled to a chatroom without the need for private rooms,
ok, i think i now know why i believe it is not fair for couples to not have the right to a room for couples without going private, there is a contradiction in the chatroom rule's, and i quote
"** NO DIRECTING ** this means take it off, show us your boobs etc the only rooms you may direct in are either private of those set up with directing allowed in the room title."
How can you set up a room saying, directing allowed, or no directing, and this is an offence that allows the host to kick someone, but couples cant insist on an open room that they dont want singles in????? whats good for one group, has to be there for everyone, you cant have one rule for one thing, to only apply for one thing, that is discrimination. see, the person that sets up a room saying, no directing, or directing allowed is given a free licence, so couples should be allowed to do the same.
look babychicks, for a start ur talking about 2 different things. no directing is to stop being inundated with the whole "get em off" thing, to stop this being a porn site and not a place to meet and CHAT to people...what ur talking about is plain discrimination. we don't want to meet single males, but we have no problem chatting to anyone - even u lol.
there is now the facility to ignore people, which u should use if u don't want to talk to someone. we get loads of whispers from single guys, especially when J or both of us are on cam, we just ignore them. this site is about inclusion, not exclusion. there are some nice, funny, entertaining single guys on here that, if u took the time to chat to, u might actually find u like as people.
this place is not just about sex..the social aspect is equally as important for the majority of us, perhaps even more so....in the 3 or so months that we've been on here u are the only person i've seen express these views as anything other than a passing "it might be nice" comment, and we are on here pretty much every day for at least 3 hours in the evening, when most couples come on.
the site rules clearly state that u cannot kick someone from a room just because of their status, coz it's discrimination in a public forum. there is of course the facility to open a private, passworded room (which i know u have used in the past)....
why not be grateful that this place exists at all instead of trying to change what oviously has been working for much, much longer than either of us have been here? as the saying goes, if it ain't broke don't fix it.
u could always go on one of the other swinging sites instead of this one if it bugs u that much. and yes, i'm entitled to my opinion, as u so succinctly put it, which is a considered one. there are a few things i may change if i was in charge, but this ain't one of them.
looking at the voting we r in the minority, which doesn't actually surprise me, but i stand by what i said.
