I just wondering how others break the ice on first meets with others and get down to swinging. Obviously house meets are a little different from a neutral venue like a bar. how do you move the meet from the bar to the bedroom. For house meets is it,
drinks, chat, snacks, mood music and ..
or games like Wii, it can work wonders for having a laugh and getting people to lighten up, what about strip poker,
At a meet I usually just try and be myself end up talking a lot of a crap for a bit , ask about the other person what they like what they dont , their past experiences, I think there is a very fine line though between making the first move and being pushy , depends on the other person and how comfortable they are feeling .
so how you have all broken the ice on a first meet and got down to play.
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Depends on the other person I think and the situation, all meets are very much different some people like to go straight to the bedroom others enjoy a relaxed chat beforehand.
I would find it rather strange if someone pulled out a wii to play with or a pack of cards, would make for a great add though Alan..
NSA fun wanted wii provided:grin:
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ppl might misread it and think golden showers are been offered 
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Hmmm this is a great topic Alan, I cant to be honest exactly sure how I do it, I just Kinda remeber a light hearted flirty chat and then whahey we're getting down and dirty. I think every meet has a different way of going, I dont think people have a set formoula, IO have met women that have wanted me to go straight to the room and inside 10 minutes we are up to something, asnd other meets I have gone for a drink or a meal with them had a chat etc. I think it varies too much to have a set timetable of events.
Like the others I think the wii Idea while interesting might be a bit odd for me to be suggesting.
just to clarify I do not have a Wii (or like wee, Slightlysexy) & I am not a fan of computer games.
if there has been a lot of suggestive texting, email or chat before the meet then a quick drink & lets go for it I find normally works. Otherwise
I prefer a drink, getting to know you chat , some suggestive chat, some light touches & suggestive eye contact and ....
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alan i never suggested u did, i was referring to the wording of offalys imagined add ,just thought it was funny, as in humourous, thats all
