Ok I know I go on cam and that I have shown my face and I do understand that ill be recognised, but it does not give some people the right to come up to me in college when I am with friends and say hi bonny and when I didn't react to them saying hi they went out of there way to embarrass me. My friends do not know I am on site this happened 3 times this week. I am sorry but I did not know who you were on site and I don't want to know as when not on this site I am a nobody, they have made me so uncomfortable now I dread going in I would never go out of my way to get some one,s attention like this. Only speak to me on site as Bonny please. What goes on site stays on site so please if you want to say hi do it when I am on my own and not with friends,use your common sense please. Show respect as I would show to you. My friends asked me what was all that I just passed it off. Look we are all adults on here show respect please. We all have lives outside of swing,sorry about my rant but I am very very angry.
BONNY
Bonny hun you poor thing - I would react the very same way as you, and I don't think my rant would be as short!!!
As someone who often shows my face on cam I also run the risk of being recognised offsite, but whereas someone recognising me is one thing, someone approaching me is a completely different kettle of fish.
I think that sort of behavior is not only lacking in discretion, but quite intimidating also.
Oh Bonny I totally agree with you. I would go mad if someone approached me in public about what goes on here. Most of us have lives outside of swing and would much prefer to keep the two totally separate. Discretion is surely one of the corner stones of swinging and without that the whole swing scene is compromised. I for one have walked straight past people in public who I have met and become friends with on here to ensure that there would not be an awkward moment. You should only ever approach people you have met through here when invited to do so as you never know who's mother father brother sister etc is about to walk around the corner leading to a very awkward situation. Whoever approached you should have their asses kicked. I am presuming it was a bloke. ....and single guys wonder why we have such a bad rep on the site..typical. Anyway rant over. Hope it doesn't happen again Bonny.
bonny oh no that not very nice of them to do a thing like that xxxxx
Bonns, I am so sorry to hear this.
I totally agree with you, we all have lives away from here, but some people just never think, or maybe they are unable to think. I have often been asked to show my face pic, but I refuse to with my personal profile, and people should respect that too.
Delighted to hear you are back in college and I wish you every success. You are a true lady as well as a vixen of desire :bounce:
dar xx
That is a disgrace, and awful to hear.
In effect it is bullying.
Hope your studies continue well.
jo
Legally what's the situation regarding such privacies?
I am sorry i don't know what the legalities are but he has since got the message and now will say hi when i am on my own and wont enter my space which i am so happy about.
