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amber if there was a like button id push it.
my body is a temple not a fuckin playground!!
it can be both, but to paraphrase twink "wrap up yer ould mickey"
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slow day, reading down through old threads..And this one caught my eye, yes agree with everything been said, but did anyone raise the point that its possible that a couple who are married or in a long term relationship in the lifestyle dont use condoms, For example, i was with a married couple recently, that the male did not use condoms, but i did..do ye get my drift, so those in photos or cam , may be in this category? or maybe not, and they are committing suicide :O
Eden, when you say "we" who are you referring to ? According to the site there are over 72000 members,of course there are a lot of inactive members,something which the admin needs to address,to give a more realistic figure of the size of the community ,but even if you discounted 50% that would leave over 36,000 members,so I would say it's quite a large community,,but really you would know who are in proper relationships and who are not?
Icer first of all, the girls know more about the full and real members on here than the guys do. They talk to each other about certain people on the site. I dont see why you are nitpicking. Just relax and enjoy the ride here.
Bareback isnt safe, most people realise that so theres no need for you to go on and on and on.......... and on and on....
The Safe Sex Code
1. Take out a condom
2. Don’t hurry, take your time
3. Expel the air before you place it on your knob, remember
4. Make sure its on your helmet,
5. Then once its snuggly on you,
6. Keep shagging, that’s the safe sex code
Know the Safe Sex Code, know the code!! :thumbup:
Bosco wanted this version on his show, but RTE said "No, its not in your contract Bosco" :small-print:
He settled for the Magic Door as an alternative.
Bosco for President!!
1. Take out a condom
2. Don’t hurry, take your time
3. Expel the air before you place it on your knob, remember
4. Make sure its on your helmet,
5. Then once its snuggly on you,
6. Keep shagging, that’s the safe sex code
Know the Safe Sex Code, know the code!! :thumbup:
Bosco wanted this version on his show, but RTE said "No, its not in your contract Bosco" :small-print:
He settled for the Magic Door as an alternative.
Bosco for President!!
Orgasminator
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Nothing 'little' about my 'soldier'!..
but I always 'wrap him up'. On a similar issue the feeling of wearing a condom doesn't bother me much but the hastle of putting one on does kinda kill the natural rhythm of what's going on (unless I'm multitasking at the time of course... :lick: :grin: )
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Great post.
Lads put a helmet on those little soldiers ;)
Nothing 'little' about my 'soldier'!..
but I always 'wrap him up'. On a similar issue the feeling of wearing a condom doesn't bother me much but the hastle of putting one on does kinda kill the natural rhythm of what's going on (unless I'm multitasking at the time of course... :lick: :grin: ) Orgasminator
Quote by cpeire
Remember folks Condoms do nothing to prevent the most common STIs: HPV (genital warts/cervical cancer) and Herpes so even if you think you are 'safe' using condoms its still a gamble!
That's why everyone should not only play safe but also get checked often so that if there is a problem you know about it and can try to deal with it instead of ignoring it... :jagsatwork:
Orgasminator
To quote the great Zack de la rocha - [i:7fc0ecf368]If ignorance is bliss, then knock the smile off my face[/i:7fc0ecf368]
:thumbup: 
my tuppence worth;
Condoms can be handy and fun, like all tools you need the right tool for the job and if you know how to use it you'll get more out of it. if some poor fecker has to sneak into the jax down the local to buy a pack of johnnies and he's all embarrassed about it he's probably coming out with something poor quality that doesn't fit him and of course it's going to lead to crap sex and put him off. You have to try everything out there, the brand I've settled on come in natural, ultra-thin and stimulation.... I'll be honest here and not all alpha male macho...really hot women turn me on, lol! I can't help it!.... and a heavier condom can help you not fly into orbit too quickly if you get my drift. By about 3am when things are getting really relaxed ultra-thin can be more pleasurable and when everyone's ready for breakfast and it's really time to wind up the party the stimulation/ribbed variety create a few subtle oohs and aaahs!!
Now, it's perfectly feasible to have a great night without condoms with total strangers, don't flame me... you just have to not get into penetrative sex! If the poor fecker mentioned above can only perform like a pneumatic drill all night it gets a bit... yawn... there is soooo much more to sex! We have often decided with our regular playmates to keep it "soft" just for the thrill of it, I mean it... the tension can be more thrilling and imagination and skill have to come into play, oh is anyone still reading this, sorry i've gone on a bit....
but basically yeah, the profile pictures of bareback, particularly anal, are a big alarm bell.
Charlie
Charlie 
Warming the Bed
A bit of bump is nice !
But no condoms= no sex
That's my motto !
Common sense,
A lot of ppl don't have it.
Always wrap up, ALWAYS.
I've only ever had sex with two people not protected and both were in long relationships (4 years plus) and only after tests were done.
I get a test every year even though I only have protected sex now, it's sense to me and a courtesy to others.
Nothing sexy or hot about getting an oozing STI or HIV/AIDS.
Can any boby please explian why a lot of males and females arrive to a meet with no condoms?? We have only had two males and one female bring condoms to a meet with us, we have our own supply of condoms but find it very insulting that these people think its ok not to have their own and are surprised when we produce ours. And what the hell is this thing males have of dropping their used condoms any where they want and expect us to clean up after them, only two have ever had the manners to safely dispose of their used condoms and they were the ones who brought their own.
Yes we enjoy having sex without condoms but only as a couple, these people who think that just because we have not used a condom and then try to have sex with the fem or male with out a condom and without even asking if it is something we want are out of line. And no it is not just the males either.
We want to enjoy the life style and live long happy lives...not be put at risk by stupid people who have no thought for their own safety never mind the couple they are meeting.
Sorry for the rant but we are sick of this.
Hate when people just drop their condoms on the floor after they've finished. It may be just me but I find it highly disrespectful. How hard is it to just go to the nearest bathroom, wrap it in tissue and bin it? Remember, you are partying in a host's home, not a knocking shop.
And what's this with trying to flush them down the toilet? The last thing we want is to have a septic tank blocked with used rubbers, and besides its not very eco friendly either.
Remember, once you leave someone's home after a meet or party, it's the hosts that have to do all the in deep cleaning and the last thing they want is to pick up used condoms off the floor. Condom wrappers dont matter, that's fine - no probs there - but used condoms are not very nice to pick up and a little forethought & consideration goes a long way.
However unlike Ravenfire, we must say that the vast majority of guys & girls that have partied at ours have always disposed of their used condoms properly, but one used condom just removed and dropped where you stand is one condom too many.
Sorry if I'm coming across as bitchy or catty but ask yourself this: Would you like to pick up other people's used condoms after your party is over and everyone has gone home?
I'll go out on a wire here and guess that you wouldnt.
I still find it beyond belief that people still want to meet and not use condoms... our rule is no wrap no play its as simple as that and while we do keep a supply of condoms on hand we do expect people who expect to play with us to at least bring their own. As for disposing of them well thats just common decency and respect although in saying that i did find a used condom in the bed after a session... yeah you guessed it that couple wont be getting an invite back to our home.... we are gracious enough to accomodate in our lovely home the least one can do is respect it ..... ok my two cents worth lol
Sexpert
if this tread had a like button i would click it ,,luva ruba
Im not too long on this site and I've been amazed at the amount of men and women that are happy to not wear condoms and openly ask for it. I too have seen men and women arrive at meets empty handed looking to have fun. I wonder do they enjoy going to their docs or the G.U.M clinic after every meet. Probably not and probably don't.
I agree with sugarloaf too, it doesn't take much effort to remove it, wrap it and bin it. This should be down to the wearer. Im just glad you can't re-cycle them. 
Nothing is 100% but I'll continue to play safe with a condom and not russian roullette without. We all know why we're here and everyone has to be accountable for there own sexual health. If people find it embarrasing to buy condoms or not even bothered to bring them to a meet, then I would think they probably never had a check up either.
Maturity, openess and honesty are key to this lifestyle. You can still have so much fun and latex can be sooo sexy. So many varieties to suit every taste.
Be safe and keep safe.
Tinyxx
Nothing is 100% but I'll continue to play safe with a condom and not russian roullette without. We all know why we're here and everyone has to be accountable for there own sexual health. If people find it embarrasing to buy condoms or not even bothered to bring them to a meet, then I would think they probably never had a check up either.
Maturity, openess and honesty are key to this lifestyle. You can still have so much fun and latex can be sooo sexy. So many varieties to suit every taste.
Be safe and keep safe.
Tinyxx 