After a number of years in this lifestyle, might be enlightening to find out some others viewpoints on what kind of outcomes/experiences they have come across?
The types that you may have encountered :-
1. Great looking guy/gal/cpl, looked great when first seen and totally enjoyed the experience?
2. Great looking guy/gal/cpl, looked great when first seen and turned out to be a total disaster?
3. Nice looking guy/gal/couple, didn't fancy initially, but as the night wore on, found out they were really lovely sexy peeps and a joy to play with?
4. Nice looking/guy/gal/couple, didn't fancy on initially, and when chat started, couldn't wait to make excuse and get away?
5. Good looking cpl, one floated the boat... other was better off left at home?
6. Good looking cpl, both too far up their own asses, they should have stayed at home with each other?
7. Nice looking gal/guy/cpl, class themselves as hotter than they actually are, trying to play above their expectations?
8. Nice looking gal/guy/cpl, underrate themselves and end up with people they may regret in the long run?
Am pretty sure those of us that have experience in this lifestyle have encountered one or more of the above and there are many other categories to add to the list but happy enough to see if this will end up in a friendly advise and discussion for not only newbies but experienced lifestylers also ;)