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A little help
Quote by user=g27
My girlfriend and I have been toying with the idea of swinging for a while, but we're unsure. In fairness; shes had a fair sized 'toy' in her pussy. She's fine(ish) intimacy, but I wonder about the impact on 'US'
Any help?
If you feel you may have some issues with jealousy or that your relationship might suffer because of swinging why start? Enjoy each others company until both of you are really ready.
Quote by user=g27
I feel you missed my point. We've discussed it; however, the issue is as to whether the dildo is different to a cock.
Completely different, simply because a cock has another man attached (assuming you're not into some necro severed parts thing anyway).
You can't reasonably expect to become jealous of the experience a dildo is having.
If you're going to invite a third person into your sex lives like that then you must be absolutely firm in your belief that your relationship as it stands is completely solid. For example, when your partner goes out for the night without you, does it worry you that they might hook up with someone else? If it does, you probably shouldn't swing. Not that that's a flaw in you relationship, but it's these niggling worries that get picked at and worsened when you do something like this before you're ready.
You need a rock-solid foundation to your relationship to make the swinging thing work, otherwise yopu're taking a big big risk with what I can only assume is one of the most important aspects of your life.
Assuming you have that foundation, you have to be choosy about who you pick to join you. don't do anything unless you feel the people you're meeting are in it for your pleasure as much as their own because a bad experience, especially your first one, can be very damaging no matter how strong your relationship might be.
Basically, the Swinging Guide over to the left there is your friend. There's a lot to it, but there's some great advice there. The chatroom's great too (despite what some say), but don't be in a hurry. Don't arrange to meet anyone from the chat unless you've seen them there a few times at least, since the timewasting types tend to lose patience and quit quite quickly.
Jesus, you'd swear I knew wht i was talking about, wouldn't ya?
Most of all, good luck, have fun and be safe.
Sex God
Quote by user=westside
I feel you missed my point. We've discussed it; however, the issue is as to whether the dildo is different to a cock.
Yes G ,a dildo is different to a cock.
Here is the cock.
and here is the dildo.
Hope this helps,
Westside.
"Handy suction cup base allows you to pleasure yourself in a variety of new positions.
:laugh:
Thanks for the reply. Sarcasm doesnt help though.
Yes G ,a dildo is different to a cock.
Here is the cock.
and here is the dildo.
Hope this helps,
Westside.
"Handy suction cup base allows you to pleasure yourself in a variety of new positions.
:laugh:
Quote by user=slightlysexy
I feel you missed my point. We've discussed it; however, the issue is as to whether the dildo is different to a cock.
Yes G ,a dildo is different to a cock.
Here is the cock.
and here is the dildo.
Hope this helps,
Westside.
"Handy suction cup base allows you to pleasure yourself in a variety of new positions.
:laugh:
