Somewhere between "swinging" and "single personals" there must be a site for friendship and possible monogamous sexual relationship between two, busy, intelligent, educated parents who are almost content with their lives.

Two years out of a divorce, I'm not interested in developing a long term relationship with the goal of a marriage or lifetime partnership; thus, the single personals don't work. Nor am I interested in sleeping around--that's too empty and too dangerous.

Who am I?

- Busy self-employed professional

- Dedicated to raising a beautiful son

-irreverent sense of humour

-most free time is spent reading, listening to music (blues, rock, jazz, classical--whatever the mood demands)

--jogs daily

--enjoys to converse about frivolous and serious

What do I want?

-woman (37 to 45 -- any age younger and I wouldn't know what to talk you about. Experience in life a must.)

--intelligent with a good sense of humour

--attractive and fit

--like me, a bit afraid of this site, but finds the "singles" sites to be even less appealing

--busy, but would like to fill a void

--puts a premium on friendship, respect, and honesty.

Okay, I doubt this description will be read, or responded to; however, if it appeals to you I will be happy to exchange photos and go slowly.