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Over 90 days ago
Female, 47
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:banghead::banghead::banghead:Quote by TootyFruity69
Mids my hunni, glad this one is a bit more convenient for you. Sure you're only a stones throw! Woo hoo, bring it on!
F1 - you can come for me anytime! Lol. Might be a bit of a longer spin for you though!:bolt:
Is it a spin or a paddle he'd be takin'? our trans-continental swinger?
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(Done in my best When Harry Met Sally impression)
(Done in my best When Harry Met Sally impression)
Hi Asmav
Well done for taking some initiative; as it is your first event and you seem to intend keeping it on a smaller scale you might want to consider treating it as a social event as opposed to a meet 'n greet.
From my perspective, as host of a Meet 'n Greet you have a certain level of responsibility to me, namely that of the event being discreet and secure and a good mix of profile statuses. Previous Meet 'n Greets have proven so successful as the host/s/ess/esses have taken this responsibility so seriously.
Maybe consider the option of an informal mingler, or even the option of setting up a regular mingler group. Members could join your group or even co-admin it and give input or support. You may be able to draw some inspiration from previous endeavours like the 'Cork First Friday Club' where members could come together at a Cork venue just to have a few drinks and the craic.
I agree that comments and verifications are a big consideration to some members, but not necessarily all. The mingler would address this for you, and also provide you with the verifications that others might require for future events. As it stands now, from my location, I'm not sure I'd commit to that distance of travel as you now stand. I'm afraid some of us are too used to members being hugely enthusiastic about events or ideas only for these to fizzle out with no outcome. If you're going to do it, then do it! If not stop talking (with all due respect).
These are my own personal opinions.
Well done for taking some initiative; as it is your first event and you seem to intend keeping it on a smaller scale you might want to consider treating it as a social event as opposed to a meet 'n greet.
From my perspective, as host of a Meet 'n Greet you have a certain level of responsibility to me, namely that of the event being discreet and secure and a good mix of profile statuses. Previous Meet 'n Greets have proven so successful as the host/s/ess/esses have taken this responsibility so seriously.
Maybe consider the option of an informal mingler, or even the option of setting up a regular mingler group. Members could join your group or even co-admin it and give input or support. You may be able to draw some inspiration from previous endeavours like the 'Cork First Friday Club' where members could come together at a Cork venue just to have a few drinks and the craic.
I agree that comments and verifications are a big consideration to some members, but not necessarily all. The mingler would address this for you, and also provide you with the verifications that others might require for future events. As it stands now, from my location, I'm not sure I'd commit to that distance of travel as you now stand. I'm afraid some of us are too used to members being hugely enthusiastic about events or ideas only for these to fizzle out with no outcome. If you're going to do it, then do it! If not stop talking (with all due respect).
These are my own personal opinions.
Hey, I've €17 million+ debt thanks for bringing this to light! Because there are licensing issues I can dispute the onus on me to repay the debt (I created) to an unlicensed entity! Good luck people of Ireland covering my ass.........
Barstool/armchair amateur advisors are dangerous and do people more harm than good in most cases. People in difficulty should be encouraged and supported in formulating a way to manage and reduce their debt and discouraged from generating more. Short-term avoidance 'theories' are detrimental and irresponsible and should not be disseminated by those who do not have a full, definite, understanding of all results and possible ramifications.
It is understandable that in the current frustrated times we would all want to 'get one over on the man'. I don't have any debt but I stuggle financially. Now if I find that all banks are operating illegally, I am just going to have to curl up in a ball and die because I promise you it's the likes of me and mine who will bear this brunt once again (I have yet to see it confirmed that the banks have no licenses, that they have had them revoked, or even that they have legally been deemed in breach of existing ones - I think I'll wait for the Supreme Courts take on this. I would hope that if it is found so that the banks would be disciplined, because believe me if liabilities are found to be void then the debts are not going to simply disappear). I have accepted we are in difficult times, I have accepted that we will just have to put the head down and get on with it for the purpose of ensuring we eventually come out of this. My country has supported or supplemented my income at points, I am grateful for this and will happily spend the rest of my life paying this back.
These posts are not what I log into this site for and I will not be getting involved in further discussion here, but the irresponsible provision of advice is a sore point with me. Nothing I have seen shows a responsible logical approach to the licensing issue, just more of the typcial Del Boy ducking and diving tactics which got us into this mess. If you can pay then you should pay..... simples. You didn't ask to see the license when you generated the debt so why is it a concern now? One individual owes over €17 MILLION. Tell me the PEOPLE OF IRELAND aren't going to suffer if he is somehow found to be clear of responsibility? And tell me you won't still be liable for property tax even if he is.........
Barstool/armchair amateur advisors are dangerous and do people more harm than good in most cases. People in difficulty should be encouraged and supported in formulating a way to manage and reduce their debt and discouraged from generating more. Short-term avoidance 'theories' are detrimental and irresponsible and should not be disseminated by those who do not have a full, definite, understanding of all results and possible ramifications.
It is understandable that in the current frustrated times we would all want to 'get one over on the man'. I don't have any debt but I stuggle financially. Now if I find that all banks are operating illegally, I am just going to have to curl up in a ball and die because I promise you it's the likes of me and mine who will bear this brunt once again (I have yet to see it confirmed that the banks have no licenses, that they have had them revoked, or even that they have legally been deemed in breach of existing ones - I think I'll wait for the Supreme Courts take on this. I would hope that if it is found so that the banks would be disciplined, because believe me if liabilities are found to be void then the debts are not going to simply disappear). I have accepted we are in difficult times, I have accepted that we will just have to put the head down and get on with it for the purpose of ensuring we eventually come out of this. My country has supported or supplemented my income at points, I am grateful for this and will happily spend the rest of my life paying this back.
These posts are not what I log into this site for and I will not be getting involved in further discussion here, but the irresponsible provision of advice is a sore point with me. Nothing I have seen shows a responsible logical approach to the licensing issue, just more of the typcial Del Boy ducking and diving tactics which got us into this mess. If you can pay then you should pay..... simples. You didn't ask to see the license when you generated the debt so why is it a concern now? One individual owes over €17 MILLION. Tell me the PEOPLE OF IRELAND aren't going to suffer if he is somehow found to be clear of responsibility? And tell me you won't still be liable for property tax even if he is.........
Then arrange it, for years the women on here have been threatening to arrange a girlie night out, finally someone has taken the reins and organised it and now it's no longer a girlie night out. I would have loved to have gone, but can't at this point, but had I been going I'd have felt unable to object to the changing of the playing field....... Sort something for the lads Mr. Just so that these nights don't die out before they even take off.
Ladies this has to be read, laughed at and passed on. There is not a woman alive today who won't crack up over this!
I was due for an appointment with the gynecologist later in the one morning, I received a call from the doctor's office to tell me that I had been rescheduled for that morning at 9:30 am. I had only just packed everyone off to work and school, and it was already around 8:45am. The trip to his office took about 35 minutes, so I didn't have any time to spare. As most women do, I like to take a little extra effort over hygiene when making such visits, but this time I wasn't going to be able to make the full effort.
So, I rushed upstairs, threw off my pajamas, wet the washcloth that was sitting next to the sink, and gave myself a quick wash in that area to make sure I was at least presentable. I threw the washcloth in the clothes basket, donned some clothes, hopped in the car and raced to my appointment.
I was in the waiting room for only a few minutes when I was called in. Knowing the procedure, as I'm sure you do, I hopped up on the table, looked over at the other side of the room and pretended that I was in Paris or some other place a million miles away.
I was a little surprised when the doctor said, 'My, we have made an extra effort this morning, haven't we?' I didn't respond.
After the appointment, I heaved a sigh of relief and went home. The rest of the day was normal .. Some shopping, cleaning, cooking. After school when my 6 year old daughter was playing, she called out from the bathroom, 'Mommy, where's my washcloth?'
I told her to get another one from the cupboard.
She replied, 'No, I need the one that was here by the sink, it had all my glitter and sparkles saved inside it.'
Never going back to that doctor again……….. never.
I was due for an appointment with the gynecologist later in the one morning, I received a call from the doctor's office to tell me that I had been rescheduled for that morning at 9:30 am. I had only just packed everyone off to work and school, and it was already around 8:45am. The trip to his office took about 35 minutes, so I didn't have any time to spare. As most women do, I like to take a little extra effort over hygiene when making such visits, but this time I wasn't going to be able to make the full effort.
So, I rushed upstairs, threw off my pajamas, wet the washcloth that was sitting next to the sink, and gave myself a quick wash in that area to make sure I was at least presentable. I threw the washcloth in the clothes basket, donned some clothes, hopped in the car and raced to my appointment.
I was in the waiting room for only a few minutes when I was called in. Knowing the procedure, as I'm sure you do, I hopped up on the table, looked over at the other side of the room and pretended that I was in Paris or some other place a million miles away.
I was a little surprised when the doctor said, 'My, we have made an extra effort this morning, haven't we?' I didn't respond.
After the appointment, I heaved a sigh of relief and went home. The rest of the day was normal .. Some shopping, cleaning, cooking. After school when my 6 year old daughter was playing, she called out from the bathroom, 'Mommy, where's my washcloth?'
I told her to get another one from the cupboard.
She replied, 'No, I need the one that was here by the sink, it had all my glitter and sparkles saved inside it.'
Never going back to that doctor again……….. never.
